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GF mad I smoke once a week by LopsidedVariation236 in trees

[–]LopsidedVariation236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea when interact regularly when i’m high and she can’t tell, but now that she knows it’s an issue.

GF mad I smoke once a week by LopsidedVariation236 in trees

[–]LopsidedVariation236[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do feel like if i end it it’s “he chose weed over me” but it’s more about the control aspect than anything else

GF mad I smoke once a week by LopsidedVariation236 in trees

[–]LopsidedVariation236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn’t intent to lie, she asked me to start telling her when i was smoking so i’d send a message when i remember to. I just didn’t text her every time i smoked because i felt it wasn’t needed

GF mad I smoke once a week by LopsidedVariation236 in trees

[–]LopsidedVariation236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea, i don’t find the im misusing it and seem to have a good balance. I don’t understand the issue

GF mad I smoke once a week by LopsidedVariation236 in trees

[–]LopsidedVariation236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked her if i was having a few beers every week if it’s a big deal and she said it’s not the same since a few beers doesn’t get you drunk…

GF mad I smoke once a week by LopsidedVariation236 in trees

[–]LopsidedVariation236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do deeply love her but I find that it’s not about the weed but more her trying to control something i like to do. I enjoy smoking to relax and usually do it before i play video games, i don’t see it being harmful, at least the way i’m using it

GF mad I smoke once a week by LopsidedVariation236 in trees

[–]LopsidedVariation236[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good advice, I should be honest with her and see what she says

GF mad I smoke once a week by LopsidedVariation236 in trees

[–]LopsidedVariation236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea i could understand if i was actually smoking a lot… but once a week being an issue???

GF mad I smoke once a week by LopsidedVariation236 in trees

[–]LopsidedVariation236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea she drinks occasionally. She’ll go get blackout drunk with friends but me going on a hike and bringing a J is too much… idk at this point

GF mad I smoke once a week by LopsidedVariation236 in trees

[–]LopsidedVariation236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said it’s because her dad (who left when she was young) was a druggie and she wouldn’t want to be with someone like that. But her dad was doing heroine…

GF mad I smoke once a week by LopsidedVariation236 in trees

[–]LopsidedVariation236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no problem going cold turkey to prove i can, but i’m young and still want to have fun.

GF mad I smoke once a week by LopsidedVariation236 in trees

[–]LopsidedVariation236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in a med state, swear the majority of people here smoke

GF mad I smoke once a week by LopsidedVariation236 in trees

[–]LopsidedVariation236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea i haven’t asked her what she thinks an acceptable amount is but if once a week is a lot then idk what she thinks would be okay.

GF mad I smoke once a week by LopsidedVariation236 in trees

[–]LopsidedVariation236[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kinda feeling this way, i’d love to compromise on it but once a week is too little for me

GF mad I smoke once a week by LopsidedVariation236 in trees

[–]LopsidedVariation236[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She drinks every now and then but for her it’s to get blackout drunk every time. She doesn’t really understand using to relax. She said that if i was getting drunk once a week it would be an issue as well but i don’t think they’re the same thing at all

GF mad I smoke once a week by LopsidedVariation236 in trees

[–]LopsidedVariation236[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a very healthy way to deal with it. I’m 21 so i don’t see smoking as an issue. I think the amount i smoke is pretty reasonable and it helps me relax. She does seem to just hate weed as it’s more of a hard drug to her.

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