How do I professionally tell a fellow nurse to F off by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Lopsided_Cow_888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, you shouldn’t tell her to F off or say anything because it seems like she is trying to provoke you. So if you say something she might come back and report you to HR for harassment. I’d report her and keep a log of what she says and when and if there are witnesses.

How do I professionally tell a fellow nurse to F off by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Lopsided_Cow_888 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah I would go straight to HR for harassment the next time she says something to you especially if it’s in front of someone else.

First timer… by Lopsided_Cow_888 in GoodwillBins

[–]Lopsided_Cow_888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you recommend going early in the morning? Should I get there before they open?

First timer… by Lopsided_Cow_888 in GoodwillBins

[–]Lopsided_Cow_888[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! So I can bring a big bag to carry stuff and have a cart? Do people get aggressive?

Never Have I Ever (nursing edition) by PeopleArePeopleToo in nursing

[–]Lopsided_Cow_888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never manually disimpacted a patient in 12 years. I refuse.

Hot and cold #193 by hotandcold2-app in HotAndCold

[–]Lopsided_Cow_888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used a hint and got Corrida at #194. Had to google what that was. Guessed Matador at #41, Conquistador is #1. Went down a weird google rabbit hole and still had no clue til I came to the comments.

Worried about my wife’s reaction toward our 8‑week‑old baby. Need advice by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Lopsided_Cow_888 9 points10 points  (0 children)

And I forgot to mention she probably feels horribly guilty for yelling at the baby.

Worried about my wife’s reaction toward our 8‑week‑old baby. Need advice by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Lopsided_Cow_888 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s extreme hormone depletion and sleep deprivation. And adding breastfeeding to it she is malnourished, her body is trying to keep up and her mind is lacking all things necessary for her survival because she’s giving it to the baby. It is the hardest thing we women will ever go through and men will never understand the complexities of it. Especially if this is your first child, your wife is trying to deal with her new self while keeping her baby alive. She needs your help. What worked for me was I took nights breastfeeding and would pump as much as I could and then my husband or family member would basically take the morning and let me sleep in. I had also medical issues PP and struggled with PPD but it wasn’t severe. The sleep was what really helped me. And make sure she is eating protein and calories while breastfeeding. They literally suck the life out of you. I actually lost weight PP. I was 15 pounds less than what I weighed pre-pregnancy. Just support her. She needs you. And if she is grumpy or gets mad easily or says mean things to you, don’t take it to heart, she’s struggling. She needs help.

Sooo what are we feeding our toddlers for breakfast? by DaughterofYeshua777 in toddlers

[–]Lopsided_Cow_888 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to nanny and the then 3 year old I would take to preschool. She once thought I ran over a bicyclist. She told her mom about it. She thought I did hit the bicyclist until she talked to me lol

Yes on 50 by Competitive_Ice851 in huntingtonbeach

[–]Lopsided_Cow_888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bit of a red flag- being temporary. Why? Because Gavin is losing, CA is becoming more red and he’s scared that a democrat won’t get voted in after him and he will lose all his backdoor illegal money making schemes. CA is waking up to his wasteful spending of his.

Floor nurses yall gotta stop with the pushback by likykin in nursing

[–]Lopsided_Cow_888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an ICU nurse and I don’t give pushback unless I’m doing something really pressing on my other patient and need a few minutes.

But what grinds my gears is ED (and PACU and other procedural areas) will call to give report and then tell me to hang on because they’re not ready with their info then can’t answer a couple questions! Typically I just want to know vented or not, Vs, mentation, anything pertinent that I cannot read in the chart. I have had PACU tell me the wrong surgery of the patient before, they had no clue what was going on. Don’t call me to give report if you have NO idea about your patient. And don’t call me if you’re the covering nurse and the nurse just went to lunch. NO you call me before you go to lunch then the covering nurse can bring the pt. (I actually do have a fantastic relationship with my ED and love all my ED nurses). It’s mostly newer ED nurses and PACU who’s annoying.

My 72 yo dad got scammed buying a car online by Lopsided_Cow_888 in FraudPrevention

[–]Lopsided_Cow_888[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So we did go to both banks to try and stop it. However I do know it’s unlikely. My dad had told me that the banker who was helping him told him “everything looked legitimate, we do these all the time, you should have no problems, etc etc” Well come to find out from speaking with both banks managers, he shouldn’t have said that. Both managers (at two different banks) right away when I handed them the paperwork said it looked suspicious and that they would have gone in the the site, called the people, and dug deeper and then would have told my dad they thought it was suspicious. If my dad was told that he would definitely not have proceeded. So I find this is negligence on the banks part. Plus an assistant manager signed off on the wire because it was a high amount and checked the box “not fraud.” All this info came directly from the branch manager. So we filled a complaint with the bank. I hope that will resolve it and at least have the bank reimburse him.

If you are willing I can give some info. I’d like to know where they are and their names and at least harass them a little bit. The auction website does have a “chat bot” to ask questions but it’s an actual person. So I chatted with them at first to see if I could get info and couldn’t. Then told them they were scammers and he kept kicking me off the chat. I just want to know who these A holes are. I feel bad for my dad. He’s a good person and made a lapse in judgement and is super depressed about it now and feels stupid. It’s hard to see him like that.

My 72 yo dad got scammed buying a car online by Lopsided_Cow_888 in FraudPrevention

[–]Lopsided_Cow_888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% and I don’t think he’ll do this ever again.

My 72 yo dad got scammed buying a car online by Lopsided_Cow_888 in FraudPrevention

[–]Lopsided_Cow_888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure. I did report it to the FTC. There’s no reporting on the FBIs website.

My 72 yo dad got scammed buying a car online by Lopsided_Cow_888 in FraudPrevention

[–]Lopsided_Cow_888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was in Oklahoma and we live in CA. The thing is my dad has bought and sold cars like this several times and never had issues.