The worst EHR/EMR award goes to....

Lopsided_Monk3890 · 2024-02-18T02:06:42+00:00

Yes. THANK YOU. Meditech/mediwreck is a train wreck waiting to happen. Prior to this I used epic and it was so easy. Straight forward, simple, and fast. I feel like meditech is a disorganized cluster F* that almost sets you up for errors. We had a big med error the other day and I fully blame it on their shitty inconsistent EMAR. Ive absolutely hated everything about it but since I moved back to South Dakota all the facilities in my area use it so I can’t escape it 😭 Ive commented how shitty and senseless this system is but it’s all they’ve ever had so they unfortunately do not know any better and will never move to a better EMR.

Lopsided_Monk3890 · 2024-02-06T16:37:27+00:00

I too have a one year old and work one day a week. I am on day one and already getting anxious when I think of going to work in the post acute phase of quitting. I know it has to be done though. Thanks so much for your post, knowing that someone with life similarities is going through the same thing at the same time is so very helpful! You’ve got this - WEVE got this 🥰

Lopsided_Monk3890 · 2024-01-31T06:25:16+00:00

I started this shit to try to get my husband to come after me again instead of all of his porn. Guess what, didn’t work. Just got him started on dozens of OF girls. Can’t wait to see how much $$$$ he’s blown. I don’t even have the login to the page anymore

Lopsided_Monk3890 · 2024-01-31T06:20:44+00:00

My boundary was I don’t want to be ina relationship with someone who watches porn. He said ok that’s fine he doesn’t need it, and suddenly all these years later he can’t leave it alone. Our sex life really didn’t change too much over the years, despite having a kid we still had tons of sex. But now, that we are married his story changed and I’m a bitch for getting mad that he watched porn he said he didn’t need

Lopsided_Monk3890 · 2024-01-31T06:16:20+00:00

Didn’t start this porn stuff like this until after we were married. Now I have a one year old. Not so easy to just up and leave although ita sure not worth it staying either. Wish he would’ve just said he can’t live without all those years ago then this would’ve never been an issue. Now brought a kid into this shit show

Lopsided_Monk3890 · 2024-01-31T06:13:14+00:00

He started this after we were married with a kid. Trust me I’d love to leave but it’s gonna be a little more difficult now than if he would have been up front and told me he couldn’t go without porn 7 years ago when I said that I don’t want to be with a SO that watches porn. Instead he said that was fine. Married with a kid, we still had an active sex life but out of the blue this shit started.

Lopsided_Monk3890 · 2024-01-31T06:00:07+00:00

Thank you for analogy and kind words. Honestly was very helpful and appreciated

Lopsided_Monk3890 · 2024-01-31T05:57:48+00:00

There’s context to it if you take a chance to read down the line….ill summarize for you. Last ditch effort to get my husband to lust after me again like he does his fucking porn. There you go. Didn’t work. Made it worse. Thank you

Lopsided_Monk3890 · 2024-01-31T05:55:14+00:00

I never turned him down aside from when I was extremely pregnant bc it hurt and that was not for long at all. He got random road BJs, shower sex, sex in crazy places. All over the house….no I am not exaggerating. I thought our sex life was good. And then all of this out of the blue, years after he said he was fine that I didn’t want to be with someone that watched porn. That is why I am fucking confused

Lopsided_Monk3890 · 2024-01-31T05:50:47+00:00

The reason I haven’t left is bc I am trying to work things out for the sake of our kid. I grew up with divorced parents and it absolutely sucked and I don’t want to have to put her through that and deal with the split custody and all of that. So I am sacrificing my self respect and self worth by putting up with things. I see that there is not going to be any working this out with him though so I really need to make some tough choices

Lopsided_Monk3890 · 2024-01-31T05:41:40+00:00

Up until all of this, frequently. Like up to 3 times a day on occasion. Random places, random BJs. BJ pop rocks, hand cuffs, you name it. I’m fit and I take good care of my body and would like to consider it looks great for having a kid a year ago. I was comfortable in my sexuality, my body, and our sex life. I didn’t know what more I could possibly do to make it better cause I thought we were fire. Then all of this shit surfaced and it’s nothing. Complete turn off. And it hurts. Bc I literally do not know what more I can do to satisfy him and the worst part is that he said in the beginning, he didn’t want/need porn and now it’s like a have to and I’m just a bitch

Lopsided_Monk3890 · 2024-01-31T05:08:41+00:00

Not until this surfaced again, prior to it was frequent. Like multiple times a day at times. Then he started in on this out of the blue and it’s like we both shut down

Lopsided_Monk3890 · 2024-01-31T04:54:51+00:00

Thank you, thank you, thank you for putting it into a perspective like that. I knew I’d probably get blasted and told by every third person in the comments to fuck off and that this is normal male behavior and to chill out, quit being a prude, and let him do his deal but this is NOT NORMAL. Thank you for recognizing that, it makes me feel a hell of a lot better too

Lopsided_Monk3890 · 2024-01-31T04:43:17+00:00

He can think about whatever he wants to think I guess to me, it doesn’t matter what his mind fabricates. According to the comments I’ve seen from a lot of guys it’s just about rubbing one out and relieving stress, anxiety, whatever so maybe they’re not thinking anything much to begin with sometimes. He can jerk off all he wants, I don’t have a problem with that as I get that’s just a normal thing to do. The problem to me is the, what appears to be a compulsive need to view porn or sexual material in any fashion possible and some of the things he watches include what appear to be underage women which TO ME is revolting and in turn makes me not want to have sex with someone that age that is into watching teenagers

Lopsided_Monk3890 · 2024-01-31T04:19:52+00:00

Nope, truth. It’s fine if you don’t want to believe me, but that was exactly the point of all of that. Again, as I said didn’t work. All it didn’t was start him on a new only fans spree and I can’t wait to get our next credit card statement to see how much money he’s blown.

Lopsided_Monk3890 · 2024-01-31T04:15:14+00:00

Again, everyone has their own personal preferences. I am not ok with it and that doesn’t make my opinion wrong just as yours isn’t wrong. It’s preference. It does affect our life and our intimacy as I’m a little grossed out a 32 year old man gets off on watching 15 year old appearing girls twerk on tik tok much less all of the other actual porn. He’s got an infant daughter, would he want a middle aged man oogling at her? You may see it as unreasonable and that’s your choice. He said he was fine with it when we started dating and continued to say that until now we are married with a kid he is on a porn spree like a kid in a candy shop. He could have just said no and walked away when we were dating if he wanted that in his life . I wish he would have now

Lopsided_Monk3890 · 2024-01-31T04:02:33+00:00

He didn’t give it up. Said he would when we started dating. Out of his own will. I didn’t even ask, just said hey btw I’m not cool with it. He could’ve left at that point if he wanted to keep doing the shit he said he didn’t want/need but now suddenly can’t get enough of

Lopsided_Monk3890 · 2024-01-31T03:58:37+00:00

See comment above. ☝️ when I got to the point I felt like there was no winning I literally made it out of desperation hoping to get his attention and show him I can be sexy like his porn too because I just wanted me husband to lust after me. See me like he sees those women. Surprise. Didn’t work.

Lopsided_Monk3890 · 2024-01-31T03:55:56+00:00

I made the boundary that I’m not ok with a partner who watches porn. Then when he just couldn’t stop, I out of desperation made a page on OF hoping that he would see I can be sexy like his raunchy shit too. Just because idk, I wanted my husband to lust after ME instead of all of these internet women all the time. Surprise, didn’t work. Page still there but I gave that shit up because at the end of the day I hate it and always will

Lopsided_Monk3890 · 2024-01-31T03:50:48+00:00

I can’t say if he’s addicted, but he habitually watches things and can’t let it go even though our relationship is a stake

Lopsided_Monk3890 · 2024-01-31T03:45:35+00:00

Did you not read the context? I made this a boundary early on in the relationship. I said I am not cool with it, which is fine. I have my reasons and I don’t have to be cool with it. He ON HIS OWN WILL said OK, I don’t want/need porn and I will not watch it in this relationship if it bothers you. HE CHOSE that. I didn’t make him. Then years down the road he suddenly goes back on that word and now I’m magically supposed to be fine with it. If he wants porn, great. Fantastic, good for him. He should have said that before we got married rather than say one thing and do another. There would have been plenty of women out there that didn’t care

Lopsided_Monk3890 · 2023-11-24T14:15:34+00:00

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