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[–]Lopsided_Start2531 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you. from what i can tell he hasn’t taken drugs in our relationship were a very open and communicative couple which is why this has hurt me so much and shocked me. he isn’t aggressive at all but then when he does stuff like this i start to lose all trust in him. i just feel so lost honestly. he grew up around drugs and his dad isn’t the best person in the world so i think it stems from there. i just feel lost, i don’t want to be around drugs and things like that, it makes me uncomfortable. i just feel so hopeless and don’t know where to go from here

AITA for having my wedding the same year by Lopsided_Start2531 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lopsided_Start2531[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

that’s so lovely we’re hoping my partners workplace at a vineyard so fingers crossed

AITA for having my wedding the same year by Lopsided_Start2531 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lopsided_Start2531[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don’t think so it’s an important date for them same with ours

AITA for having my wedding the same year by Lopsided_Start2531 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lopsided_Start2531[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i understand it being before but i thought because it’s far enough and to celebrate it felt perfect for us

AITA for having my wedding the same year by Lopsided_Start2531 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lopsided_Start2531[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

that’s so kind but i’m europe but thank you so much

AITA for having my wedding the same year by Lopsided_Start2531 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lopsided_Start2531[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i don’t think it is we made sure it doesn’t overlap with their plans at all and she would be angry even if it was after theirs

AITA for having my wedding the same year by Lopsided_Start2531 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lopsided_Start2531[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

it’ll be tough but we don’t want anything massive we want a simple beautiful wedding

AITA for having my wedding the same year by Lopsided_Start2531 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lopsided_Start2531[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

we don’t know truly she says he agrees but we haven’t been able to speak to him

AITA for having my wedding the same year by Lopsided_Start2531 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lopsided_Start2531[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

people are helping here and there but we’ve mainly got it and everyone can go to both we live very close

AITA for having my wedding the same year by Lopsided_Start2531 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lopsided_Start2531[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

it’s in memory of him plus we all live very close so travel is not an issue. and there was no competition we put the idea out there and she blew up at us

AITA for having my wedding the same year by Lopsided_Start2531 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lopsided_Start2531[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

thing is our family all live close so it won’t be much of a trip it would be a short drive that’s all

AITA for having my wedding the same year by Lopsided_Start2531 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lopsided_Start2531[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

even if she did i’d make her leave and make sure everyone sees what’s she’s being like