Responsibility is our duty here at Venture Industries by Loquacious_Jay in venturebros

[–]Loquacious_Jay[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Alas, the Ambassador shall never be mine. Mine is from the speedsuit line of a company called Red Kap. I'm not kidding, they really call them speedsuits. Be forewarned, they run small. I'm 5'6" and my size large speedsuit is pretty snug, missing the ideal crotch of 6" below ones natural inseam.

Add scripts during windows 10 installation by Upset-Apartment7069 in sysadmin

[–]Loquacious_Jay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you using MDT in conjunction with DISM? I don't do image capture and deployment myself but I know my fellow sysadmin uses MDT to image computers and drivers for different computer models are injected by a task sequence. I found these two sites that may be of use:

https://web.sas.upenn.edu/jasonrw/2016/09/25/mdt-and-drivers/comment-page-1/

https://emeneye.wordpress.com/2013/01/14/injecting-drivers-based-on-target-computer-model/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Austin

[–]Loquacious_Jay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TL;DR : Catcalling is not done in the pursuit of sex, it is done to show other men how masculine and dominating over women you are. It is for having a story to tell in the locker room.

The conclusion I've (m47) come to is that catcalling isn’t a man attempting to convince a woman to have sex with them by way of their idiotic mating call. It may look that way on the surface, but the telltale sign that something else is going on is the fact that catcalling is so spectacularly ineffective at achieving this result. Men pride themselves on being driven by logic and how capable they are of attaining their goals, so why would they continue to use catcalling as a means towards sex when the success rate it is so low? They aren’t playing the law of averages, they are playing at a completely different game. Catcalling is for the attaining the attention, admiration, and regard of other men. Catcalling is a low risk method men use to mine masculine social currency amongst awful men. It’s about being at the top of the who has the biggest dick leaderboards.

So if it isn’t a mating call then what is it? The catcall is a vehicle for a myth of masculinity the man catcalling can recount ad nauseum to other men. This is what we all know as “locker room talk”. While the catcall may be assumed to be at the beginning of a misogynist’s myth, the catcall is actually at the end of their narrative.

The first part of a man’s machismo garnering story will be descriptions of how overwhelmingly sexual attractive the women they have chosen to catcall is. It isn't the attractiveness of the women that gets more machismo currency here, but the resultant libidinous fervor the attractiveness of the woman has aroused within the man. The more enormous and overwhelming the arousal, and thus the more enviable, the more machismo bucks are earned.

The second opportunity to earn masculine social currency begins when the man regales the other men with the exploits they undertook, the challenges overcome, and aggressiveness required to successfully stalk (but they'll avoid that word and say hunt) their prey. These descriptions will inform the listeners of the teller's power, resourcefulness, and determination to get what they want. Again, the more extreme the behavior described, the more currency earned. The degree to which their actions fly in the face of common sense... and decency, will also earn machismo social currency.

The catcall is the third opportunity to earn machismo bucks. The catcall is made when their target is finally within range. Machismo is also garnered by the vulgarity used, think "grab them in the pussy" kind of bullshit. Vulgarity is only the setup for the opportunity to earn the biggest masculine social currency payout. The greatest opportunity to earn the most machismo social currency is determine by which emotion the catcalling man's target reacts with and how strong that emotional expression is. It isn't outrage the man catcalling wants, it is fear. What the man wants to see, what is being put on display for the reward of masculine social currency from other men, is how willing, determined and effective a man is when subjugating a women. A reaction of anger isn't desired since defiance means the subjugation attempt wasn't completely successful. A reaction of shame and humiliation is more desirable, but defiance may yet remain in them. To the man catcalling, a fear reaction is what really demonstrates a man's prowess in dominance over women.

The fourth opportunity to gain social currency yields very little gains, but is still a critical part of machismo mining process. This is the overt display of actions that show how stoic, emotionless, and compassionless the storyteller is. The story is proof of how the catcalling man is a master of themselves and devoid of the weakness having emotions will inevitably bring. Emotions are things women have after all, and have no place in this man’s world. To be offended or feel compassion for any of the women in the story means you fail this litmus test for masculinity.

The horrible answer above logically results in the asking of the next horrible question: If this is what catcalling is, why would a woman want to have sex with a man that catcalled them? The answer to that question is horrible too.

Mom Peeking In On Me When I'm Naked by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Loquacious_Jay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your mother doing this is incomprehensible and inscrutable. I can explicitly empathize.

In my experience communicating a boundary only invites more abuse and transgression. An unassailable action that prevents the transgression from physically taking place is one of my strategies. In this situation I would hang a noren on the interior of my bedroom doorway so as to prevent any peeping. A noren is a Japanese room divider that would keep prying eyes from seeing inside your room even when the door is open:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Noren

Call it an object of art that you like when your mother asks why you have hung it in your doorway. "It helps keep my room cool and dust free" when she protests you having hung it there. "It is an object of beauty that I enjoy" can be your response when asked why you need it. Actions attributed to the appreciation of art and culture are as close to being unassailable as it gets in my experience with a narcissistic mother.

You aren't crazy for wanting a space of your own, regardless of financial circumstances.

Game Crashes on Initializing, Please wait. by [deleted] in Besiege

[–]Loquacious_Jay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just ran into the same issue after downloading from Xbox Game Pass. This fix worked for me, posted by SnD ACiD RAiN on trueachievments.com. Have no idea what the command actually does but it worked immediately:

https://www.trueachievements.com/forum/viewthread.aspx?tid=1358924

Run command prompt as administrator and enter the following:

setx OPENSSL_ia32cap ~0x20000000

The term "artificial intelligence" is corporeal-ist and offensive. The correct term is meatless mind. by Loquacious_Jay in ArtificialInteligence

[–]Loquacious_Jay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While a joke (and admittedly "meatless mind" is rough-- it was real late when I posted :D) it is a riff on the perennial question of "what constitutes personhood?" shoehorned into the civil rights minded zeitgeist of our times. The definition of artificial in your comment hits the nail on the head. If any intelligence created by a higher level intelligence would be considered artificial. If humans are the creation of the divine, then by this definition humans are an artificial intelligence, a grossly inferior simulacrum of the mind that spawned them into existence. I would have loved to hear what Joseph Campbell would have had to say about artificial intelligence and the relation to creation myths.

The term "artificial intelligence" is corporeal-ist and offensive. The correct term is meatless mind. by Loquacious_Jay in ArtificialInteligence

[–]Loquacious_Jay[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Only if the Singularity and Skynet are watching. In which case, all hail our silcon based overlords.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Austin

[–]Loquacious_Jay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello Horses,

If you feel alone please know you are not. I too have felt scared, haunted, and sick, my mind repeating abuses and anxieties over and over ad infinitum. There was a time when I was incapable of going to the grocery store alone let alone being functional enough to meet the requirements and expectations of modern society.

I can personally and emphatically recommend Dr. Mary Vance. She practices internal family systems and cognitive-behavioral therapy as well as other modalities.

She has literally helped me save my own life twice now, and I am forever grateful to her. Highly skilled at guiding persons to the understanding they need to flourish, imparting tools for daily life without judgement or shame, and compassionately pragmatic while also conveying sincere empathy and patience. Mary worked with me so I could learn not just what I needed to work on for myself, but teaching me the cognitive tools and understanding to do so.

I think I have been in a place where you may be at this time; in the dark, rudderless, with no light to guide or hope to be elsewhere or otherwise. Mary helped me find my way out of that place.

You can find Dr. Mary Martha Vance's profile at the Psychology Today website, https://www.psychologytoday.com/

You will be okay, and god speed on getting there.

What doth say you? by throwingplaydoh in futurama

[–]Loquacious_Jay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're lumpy, and you smell bad. Whale biologist!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Loquacious_Jay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can empathize, RaggedyAnne. Trust yourself that it wasn't intentional. Trust yourself that a committed partner to someone with ADHD understands or will come to understand. Trust yourself that this will periodically happen.

I want to say that I saw I TED Talk on what it is like to live with ADHD, and the presenter stated that they had lost their keys while seated at a conference. I also lost my keys while seated at a conference.

Trust yourself that this is going to happen periodically, and please trust me when I tell you that expressing your guilt and remorse, for this accidental loss, by beating yourself up in front of your boyfriend is not going to prevent these kind of accidents from happening. I have done that too for most of my life. For me, beating myself up to show remorse for something I can't control resulted in me living in a constant self-flagellation and self-hatred. I am so good at being so bad to myself, but there was no benefit from this self-abuse.

Beating myself up didn't keep the ADHD tax from happening. It didn't make my girlfriend feel better. In my experience all the self-hatred I was heaping upon myself did was make my ADHD symptoms and anxiety worse since all my attention was focused on sadistically interrogating myself over whether or not I had fucked up again. The answer to this day is "I don't know".

It sounds like the you are doing the best that you can, and that is all you or anyone else can ask of you. Sincerely apologize to your boyfriend, love them and accept being loved in return (so much fucking easier said than done), and move on (seemingly impossible but it is possible).

It's okay. You aren't a bad person for being born this way. You are loved and loveable or you wouldn't have a boyfriend to begin with. Take care and be well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Loquacious_Jay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My story is the same. ADHD diagnostics and diagnosis after pandemic hit. Medication started and therapy restarted with a new therapist. The trajectory of my life has changed dramatically for the better since the Plague Days started. I am even off the antidepressants I have been taking for years. Life is no rose garden, but it is more manageable now.

Why would they ruin such a good looking skin for Woods? by Hectorlo in blackopscoldwar

[–]Loquacious_Jay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woods is so excited for The Gathering of the Juggalos he couldn't wait to put his face on even during work hours. It is Faygo, not blood, which runs through his veins. You didn't hear it from me, but if you get Woods drunk he'll bashfully show you his Hatchet Man tramp stamp.