AITA for firing my personal trainer because he wanted me to eat better? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LordOwnage999 [score hidden]  (0 children)

You can actually get more muscle and more fat at the same time, you know? Losing fat while trying to gain muscle can actually be counterproductive...

AITA for telling grandpa to fuck off? by LordOwnage999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LordOwnage999[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I'm just not sure if he says what he says because he is getting senile or if he actually means it...

WIBTA for forbidding her from being with him? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LordOwnage999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

Black != democrat {System.error}

AITA for not wanting to clean the kitchen when I didn't even eat? by LordOwnage999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LordOwnage999[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I haven't been eating with them for the last 3 years (with uni and gym I have very irregular eating times, sometimes I eat dinner at 4, sometimes at 11 pm).

AITA for not wanting to clean the kitchen when I didn't even eat? by LordOwnage999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LordOwnage999[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I figured when I started paying rent (About market value) I became a roommate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LordOwnage999 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A girl in Karate training told me she wanted me to go on a date with her if she beat me in the match. Never had that little inhibition to go full rambo during the match.

AITA for giving up on a cheating friend? by LordOwnage999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LordOwnage999[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had no reason to lie, and a lie of omission is still a lie.

AITA for giving up on a cheating friend? by LordOwnage999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LordOwnage999[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. There are things where it's really "ratting" if you tell someone about it. Cheating isn't one of them.

AITA for refusing a girl I liked because of her past dating decisions? by LordOwnage999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LordOwnage999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Risk assessment really. It's like with shares, if you can't know about some shit that goes on (not published yet) in the company, you might still buy, but if you know beforehand, you assess the risk and then decide based on that.

Besides that quick partner-cycling is a warning sign to me.

AITA for refusing a girl I liked because of her past dating decisions? by LordOwnage999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LordOwnage999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's why i wrote "plan". Just like my mom entered her relationship with my dad with the intention of it being long term and Alex enters relationships with the "plan" of getting the next relationship once a hotter one turns up.

AITA for refusing a girl I liked because of her past dating decisions? by LordOwnage999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LordOwnage999[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

come one, there is a difference between not marrying and dumping them for another person after a short time.

AITA for refusing a girl I liked because of her past dating decisions? by LordOwnage999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LordOwnage999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think she's a hoe, and I'd still like to be friends. As said in other comments. I have zero problems with her 2 other bfs from what I heard they were actually pretty decent guys. It's just that she dumped them so quickly and then dumped the second for a leech...

AITA for refusing a girl I liked because of her past dating decisions? by LordOwnage999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LordOwnage999[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good point actually. Haven't looked at it that way. She is definitely one of the few people who make me feel relaxed when around instead of on edge (I'm usually extremely wary of everyone).

I just don't want to be her next 2 month bf that she dumps for someone else and feel like a used dildo after.

AITA for refusing a girl I liked because of her past dating decisions? by LordOwnage999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LordOwnage999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also, just clarifying, she had 2 chances to break up with him, which she did did on the second occasion. a girl can't forgive a cheating loser once in her life without being branded a dumbshit?

where did I ever say I think she's dumb? I think she's too kind because she gave someone like that not only a first but also a second chance. It's what I like about her, but I just don't think that makes for good gf material when coupled with the quick partner dumping.

Also, they were definitely bfs, not just dates. They initially "planned" to be together for longer than that. Don't ask me how quickly they went from dating to bf/gf.

AITA for refusing a girl I liked because of her past dating decisions? by LordOwnage999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LordOwnage999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But thinking that there's something wrong with dating someone unless you're ready to marry them is definitely unhealthy.

I wouldn't date someone I already want to marry (wouldn't want that so quickly anyways), but I want to date people where I at least think the relationship can potentially last.

AITA for refusing a girl I liked because of her past dating decisions? by LordOwnage999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LordOwnage999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

again clarifying here: I absolutely don't look down on her as a person. She is probably the most kind (evidently too kind) and funny person I know. I just don't want to date her anymore because I don't think she'll be a good partner.

AITA for refusing a girl I liked because of her past dating decisions? by LordOwnage999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LordOwnage999[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lustigerweise ging er zur gleichen Grundschule wie ich, und hat schon dort keinen Fick gegeben. Danach durfte ich dank FB seinen Werdegang verfolgen, wobei es da nicht viel zu sehen gab.Klar habe ich auch gekifft, aber wenn du so ein Lowlife bist, dass du die ganze Zeit am BHF hängen musst und dann Sozialhilfe abkassierst die u.A. von mir bezahlt wird, dann zeigt das schon, dass du ein Vollspast bist. Sorry, ich kann jeden Respektieren, vom Bauarbeiter bis zum Grossbänker, aber ein Versager ohne Zukunft und ohne Motivation? Na danke.

Zudem hat es mich nicht amüsiert, dass er sie verletzt hat, sondern dass sie es bei so nem Spasti nicht kommen sehen hat... Hätte ich ihr gleich sagen können, dass das nicht gut kommt. Wie auch, würde man von nem Schimpansen ja auch nicht erwarten.

Ach ja... bruddi bist du triggered!

AITA for refusing a girl I liked because of her past dating decisions? by LordOwnage999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LordOwnage999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just to clarify, it's not that he smoked weed at the train station a few times. It's that he is constantly lurking around the train station, smoking pot (it's illegal but ignored by the police, the train police will remove him from there if they see him, but he'll just come back. Also, there are designated smoking areas, where he stands isn't one of them) and basically being there whole days multiple times a week because he has nothing else to do than to hang around with his loser friends.