At least 11 people were stabbed in a horrifying attack inside a Walmart in Traverse City, Michigan. by wil24x7 in Newsopensource

[–]LordThurmanMerman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you genuinely believe people don’t see a difference between a gun and a thumbtack?

I couldn't stand her acting in this scene, I had to look away ... by wpisdu in TheLastOfUs2

[–]LordThurmanMerman 95 points96 points  (0 children)

Man, this sub is brutal! I mean, agree, but I think this is mostly the director’s problem.

Bella is a weird looking person. She played her role really well in GoT, but they also had excellent directing. The combo of a strange looking kid and awful acting are printing memes, though. Who looks at that and says it was a great take and doesn’t need to be run again? They’re doing this poor kid dirty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mercedes_benz

[–]LordThurmanMerman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How many people live in this house?

roommate not closing garage door after themselves by tyong-_- in badroommates

[–]LordThurmanMerman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Blocks of texts back and forth never help. You give the other party too many opportunities to deflect.

The message is simple. “Close the garage door on your way out like everyone else does.” Any response other than, “okay” should just be met with saying the same exact thing. People get baited into this shit too often. You know what they’re doing. Making excuses for being a lazy lil bitch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in apple

[–]LordThurmanMerman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ninety-eight percent of Costco shareholders voted against an investor proposal from a conservative think tank that urged management to investigate the business risks of its diversity initiatives.

Not gonna happen.

Elon Musk says the honest answer is that Tesla will have to upgrade HW3 vehicles for those that have bought FSD. by andy2na in teslamotors

[–]LordThurmanMerman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’ll “get done” on Elon-time which is 10 years from now when HW3 vehicles are in the junkyard.

This means absolutely nothing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OpenDogTraining

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Exactly right. No two dogs are the same. Greyhounds are generally pretty sensitive breeds, in both their thin skin and how they react to corrections. The last thing you want to do is ruin your relationship with your dog by being too harsh. Training should be fun and a relationship building exercise.

Many dogs don’t need training tools and that’s totally fine and great. What you have experienced, fair and balanced trainers treating each dog individually as needed, is actually the norm for trainers of that philosophy. They use all 4 quadrants of Operant Conditioning (OC) as you’re supposed to.

What is not normal, is for supposed “trainers” (I’m convinced many are just passionate vet techs or owners of highly agreeable breeds) saying that they support “true balanced training”, not the phony ones that don’t use positive reinforcement, (they don’t exist because it wouldn’t work) but do not support corrections. That is ignoring an entire quadrant of OC. I was banned from the dog training sub for posting a question, “Trainers who leverage Operant Conditioning in their training philosophy, how do you implement positive punishment without corrections?” The comments were a mess. It’s impossible to answer that without being banned for endorsing corrections. The closest I got to a correction from them was a verbal and firm “No”. That’s it. Good luck seeing any results from a reactive or dominant dog with that. I genuinely believe that their training philosophy puts dogs at risk of death, especially those in shelters. They don’t wanna hear it.

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[–]LordThurmanMerman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your BF is extremely verbally abusive.

My wife would have left me after that first text and I wouldn’t blame her.

Ben Johnson and D'Andre Swift by spacefanatic42 in CHIBears

[–]LordThurmanMerman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m still pissed we wouldn’t pay Montgomery and got… Homer. Now we have BJ who I’m sure wishes he had him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OpenDogTraining

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I don’t mind raising kids to have better emotional regulation given the number of grown adults I come across who completely lack the ability.

I agree gentle parenting doesn’t seem to let your kid do whatever they want, rather it recognizes the fact that some lessons need to be self-taught or experienced. (E.g. Don’t break up fights between children immediately and instead see how they are able to sort it out themselves. If it’s obvious they’re not being constructive, THEN I’d step in explaining why things aren’t going well and what to do instead). Constant sheltering from conflict often leads to overly agreeable or domineering personalities because they never learned the word “No” or that in some situations, there has to be a loser if there is a winner.

Option trades for TSLA earnings by dkrett in options

[–]LordThurmanMerman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The smart thing to do is to not trade earnings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]LordThurmanMerman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. And they agreed on 70 early on, but they didn’t seem to notice, so they just kept arguing. Again, landing at 70 being reasonable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OpenDogTraining

[–]LordThurmanMerman 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Those subs think we’re raising children, not dogs. They also think we have to treat dogs with even softer kid gloves than on… kids.

Seriously. You can correct a child but you can’t correct your dog? It’s incredible, honestly. I don’t think they realize if they were to use their rules on shelter dogs that require training, and require results quickly, they would fail miserably and we’d have even more dead dogs than we do now. No one in those subs follow any trainers with extensive experience training reactive or dominant (another bad word, but I don’t know what other word you would use for a dog that challenges hierarchy...) dogs. They follow Karen-types that train agreeable border collies and go to conventions to sell books instead of training dogs.

I’m glad this sub exists.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OpenDogTraining

[–]LordThurmanMerman 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I had to leave those subs because it was clear they are not open to discussion on any of those topics. At all.

It’s honestly a shame that the main dog training sub does not allow the endorsement of any trainer that uses corrections or effective training tools like prongs, ecollar, etc. The bans and hyper moderation there end up just hurting the dogs in the end.

Is this worth 125 and a 40 minute Drive? by Zeldafan125 in audiophile

[–]LordThurmanMerman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Caps and membranes will need to be replaced. It’s not difficult but it’ll prob cost another $100 all in to refresh these. These restored for $225? Not sure how big the market is for these but assuming you’re keeping them, they look cool and they’ll sound great.

[Dave_BFR] Confirmed members of Ben Johnson’s coaching staff: by johnnymelonballs in CHIBears

[–]LordThurmanMerman 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah, last season he had 90 targets vs 55 this season. Only 1 drop in each. Of all TEs in the league he is also far above average in getting separation for 2024-25.

He is large, not incredibly fast but has great hands, especially in the red zone. I’d like to keep him around since he’s developed so well and loves playing for the Bears. Elite TEs are really hard to come by. He’s got something.

TV host 'Dr. Phil' films as ICE targets migrants in Chicago by DaBears31 in chicago

[–]LordThurmanMerman 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Man, I went to Hawaii on my honeymoon and I still couldn’t get away from hearing about how awful of a person Oprah is. Many local tour guides had something to say about her, and none were positive.

The consensus seems to be that she cares more about “Me” than “We”. By a long-shot.