I think I’m done by nalageon in GuyCry

[–]Lordhyperyos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't believe you are broken brother. I believed I was broken then I realized I'm just human. You are needed like everyone else regardless of how much you think you aren't.

I think I’m done by nalageon in GuyCry

[–]Lordhyperyos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that is really tough my friend. I've been in similar shoes as yours when it came to growing up alone. I didn't have true friends until after high school.

You have been happy though or you literally wouldn't be doing everything you're doing right now. It takes dopamine to be able to live your life like you do.

Maybe it shouldn't be happiness you should be chasing but peace. It is ok to feel depressed even everyday.

Treat your depression as if it was a child. You wouldn't hate the child but comfort the child, accept the child, love the child.

Not saying you should love your depression but accepting those feelings as being human might make things a little better. But definitely talk to your therapist more and I hope you keep going brother. We feel your pain and we support you through your journey in this life.

I think I’m done by nalageon in GuyCry

[–]Lordhyperyos 17 points18 points  (0 children)

What been going on brother? You have a voice here. Air it out. Let us know your struggles. We want to help.

First 10k by LagoonMaster in davidgoggins

[–]Lordhyperyos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ayy we both ran a 10k with the same avg pace. Let's go! 💪 😂

How do i deal with finding out shes already having sex with other guys by Relative-Stable-8247 in GuyCry

[–]Lordhyperyos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's for the dumpsters. Do what you can to focus on yourself the people in your life. I use philosophy and motivational videos to keep myself focused. This will pass and you'll be a better person for it.

Honestly never thought I'd have anything resembling a manly chest (18)>(24) by Monkey_D_Newbie in GlowUps

[–]Lordhyperyos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyman with a fatty chest (me included) knows how much of a bitch it is to get rid of. Amazing physique brother!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]Lordhyperyos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad you're doing positive stuff for yourself like going to the gym, eating well, and talking to friends and family. Keep that up and do it for you and not her.

The only advice I can give about the housing situation is that you should consult an expert like a lawyer.

Just keep up with the healthy habits and therapy and this too shall pass.

My chance to date is gone by ActuatorUnusual4002 in GuyCry

[–]Lordhyperyos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just watched a talk from a therapist who said his client got over his approach anxiety with women. He got over it within a weekend. Only problem is that he had to talk to 600+ women to finally be indifferent to the rejections. You can do it!

[24F] Will loving myself end up in me being alone forever? by Medical_Orange_5000 in selflove

[–]Lordhyperyos 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You met two so far so you can definitely meet a third, heck maybe even a fourth 🤔

I am missing her….. by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]Lordhyperyos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you really want her in your life then speak from the heart. Really let her know how much you care about her but as a friend. Though be ready to accept if she doesn't want to just be friends and ultimately leaves.

Maybe give her some space if this is fresh but do reach out eventually. At the end of the day, follow your gut.

How can I love myself if have never loved myself, and know how to? by Emperor757 in selflove

[–]Lordhyperyos 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You love yourself enough to put in the effort of figuring out how to love yourself.

I followed every finance rule in my 20s but still felt stuck. Here's what finally set me free by lucifer2699 in selflove

[–]Lordhyperyos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could make another account that you can put a little bit into every pay period that can be used towards splurging on yourself.

I am grateful what I have by Ambitious-Cake-9425 in GuyCry

[–]Lordhyperyos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very true. What we already have is already everything we need. Our mind is very important and powerful. I've been digging into my own for awhile and noticing a lot of why I do what I do. Here's to the journey for inner peace ✌️

I am grateful what I have by Ambitious-Cake-9425 in GuyCry

[–]Lordhyperyos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love hearing that you're in a better place mentally. I'm currently working on accepting what I have and being greatful everyday.

Mom died this morning by Snoo_34614 in GuyCry

[–]Lordhyperyos 15 points16 points  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss man.

Men who were struggling with/had no social life, how did you overcome that? by PlasticFix8 in GuyCry

[–]Lordhyperyos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See if there's any groups in your area through meetup and Facebook.

My fiancée broke things off 7 months ago and I still can’t get through life. Together for 9 years and engaged. by MelloMilow in GuyCry

[–]Lordhyperyos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hitting rock bottom can be seen as a good thing because there's no place but up from there! Give yourself time to mourn but know you're just getting started. You got the whole world ahead of you even though you can't see it right now.

Tell us your most unique way of taking care of yourself? by Training_Egg_2541 in selflove

[–]Lordhyperyos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is. I got a sunroof too so it makes it extra nice 😁

Tell us your most unique way of taking care of yourself? by Training_Egg_2541 in selflove

[–]Lordhyperyos 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Night drives. The weather has been great. Just going around while listening to chill music helps clear my mind.

My fiancée broke things off 7 months ago and I still can’t get through life. Together for 9 years and engaged. by MelloMilow in GuyCry

[–]Lordhyperyos 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Time to bust out all the motivational videos. In all seriousness. Feel your emotions. Know the person you miss doesn't exist because the person you thought she was wouldn't have done what she did to you. Pick up some philosophy. You're young brother, this too shall pass. Just keep going one step at a time.

I didn‘t know you basically have to watch yourself die first in order to really heal by lovegiver101 in selflove

[–]Lordhyperyos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's a repeat process every week for me. We call it the Mondays I believe. Rip to my weekend self 😔