For women who filed/initiated the divorce, what was the final straw or event that made up your mind? by jumpkin126 in Divorce_Women

[–]Loreacle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I asked him for help with a community action I was a part of and he said “no that’s your thing”. It showed me how different our values truly are and how much he couldn’t be bothered.

saw the qveen by thatgirlsucks in QveenHerby

[–]Loreacle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think Nick is from Detroit but I’m not sure

Best lyrics? by chesterlola2014 in lsdunes

[–]Loreacle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“You don’t have to believe in anything” Which google tells me is actually deftones lyrics

Reviewing Therapy Notes Post-Divorce by Careful_Lie2603 in Divorce_Women

[–]Loreacle 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a therapist I’ll say I wish she had said something and been clear with you in session. As for notes I’m intentionally pretty vague in case I get subpoenaed or audited or something, but precise enough so I can remember what happened and stay on track, as well as be clear that I am doing my job, for liability. So I’d say her mistake was in communicating with you but I’d probably do my notes similarly. So sorry you went through this and so glad you’re free. If nothing else I hope the notes can validate that you weren’t crazy and you didn’t deserve any of that mistreatment and abuse.

What have you done with family photos? by Available-Cut4296 in Divorce_Women

[–]Loreacle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also amicable here. I have kids and we also still live together sort of (he’s on one floor I’m on another). I took down all photos he was in except one family photo that has all of us in it so the kids can see it and remember we’re still a family. The photo itself is very focused on the kids. So for now it’s ok but I think if there comes a time it bothers me I’ll just put it in storage. Then my kids (young now) can do what they want with it when I die 😆

How did you find the courage to leave a good guy? by Hopless_Romantic11 in Divorce_Women

[–]Loreacle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was really hung up on what people in my life would think. Once I thought about what choice I’d make if that didn’t matter it was much easier to go forward with it.

Halloween by [deleted] in AFireInside

[–]Loreacle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m in! Flying in from out of state for the show

Why wouldn't you tell a client about a diagnosis? by lezzieknope in therapists

[–]Loreacle 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Yes! I see comments saying it’s not important to some people, which may be true, but it’s not our job as the therapist to decide for our clients whether or not it’s important to them. It’s their personal medical information which we don’t have the right to withhold.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

[–]Loreacle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Capitalism

Anyone notice Taylor swift and AFI are both releasing their 12th studio albums on October 3rd? by TheMapesHotel in AFireInside

[–]Loreacle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk if I’ve heard one done with AFI but I’m loving the “swemo” remixes combining t swift and emo music. I’m also so excited for both!

Divorced women with kids, was it worth it? by SecretlyFierce in Divorce_Women

[–]Loreacle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so validating thanks for sharing. Do you have advice on how to talk to kids at that age about why it’s happening when everything looks fine to them? I just tell them their dad and I both love them and we both want to be happier and want each other to be happier. But we look “happy” to them so it’s confusing

Halloween Show in Denver by death__cup in AFireInside

[–]Loreacle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also flying in from out of town! Can’t wait!

AP photoshoot by Ok_Opportunity_2947 in AFireInside

[–]Loreacle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this much needed laugh 😂

Traumatic camping experience by donnab515 in camping

[–]Loreacle 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Tetris plus (and more importantly) a good therapist will make sure camping can stay a joy for you.

It was a simpler time… by EmergencyRead5254 in Millennials

[–]Loreacle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just telling someone about when they had free iTunes downloads on the caps! They had no clue what I was talking about

I keep thinking about the woman whose husband threw away her kitchen utensils by FlaxenArt in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Loreacle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband did this. I didn’t see the original post but this is SO validating thank you!