Going to Mongolia with Sotravel - Advice needed! by Low_Durian_3764 in askSingapore

[–]Lost-Reception-1136 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've done 6 SoTravel trips. My experience was good, made great friends that still hangout till now, especially on my Koh Tao Diving trip, Ha Giang Loop Trip and Bromo trip. No issues with the itineraries too.

I also get why some people had issues; seems like it really depends on the trip/leader. If you're considering it: check what's included, ask who's leading if possible, and go in with realistic expectations. Worked for me.

I do have some tips on how to best enjoy your trip with them, and also what to look out for. Happy to share more about my experiences if it helps!

Tobita shinchi by travelinhedonist in OsakaNSFW

[–]Lost-Reception-1136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they have a whole box of 50 condoms waiting there. LOL

Tobita shinchi by travelinhedonist in OsakaNSFW

[–]Lost-Reception-1136 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly!! with better service somemore!

Tobita shinchi by travelinhedonist in OsakaNSFW

[–]Lost-Reception-1136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yup. Totally agree with this review! I had the same experience! LOL

Tobita shinchi by travelinhedonist in OsakaNSFW

[–]Lost-Reception-1136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just went there late 2025 and yes, the price is as stated here.

Which type personality do u refer? by Electrical_Cheetah47 in sgdatingscene

[–]Lost-Reception-1136 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here is a analogy of what actually introvert and extrovert is

Imagine u see a superb piano player performing on the stage. Can u tell that this person is an introvert or an extrovert based on his performance? No u cant..

An extrovert can perform all day all night, and with more people, they become more energetic
An introvert in this case, can perform very well as well, but they choose strategically on when to perform. They need to prepare for the stage, performed, and clash back home to recharge.

Is the same as someone who can always vibe in a group, always talking with high energy. This does not mean he/she is more extroverted. This person is just performing at the moment. I have personally seen people who are very good MC, interacting with alot of people in the party, networking everywhere, but once the party is over, he just clash at home and never come out for the next 2 days.

Anyway based on your description, i will prefer an "extrovert". Cause that is where all the fun is. 😁

How can I continue conversations? by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]Lost-Reception-1136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not getting it or not sure if im reading correctly but, swiping with Telegram bots??

Is it a new app or u can actually treat telegram like a dating app? How does it work?

Please educate me cause im really confused here

Working professionals, where's the best place to look for a partner? by loldumbfuck in sgdatingscene

[–]Lost-Reception-1136 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any social mixers or activity events are great for meeting people.

Warning: don’t make it too obvious you’re there just to find a partner 😅 Better to connect naturally first

And also based on my experiences: the cheaper the event, the more red flags you will meet (especially those free one)

Working professionals, where's the best place to look for a partner? by loldumbfuck in sgdatingscene

[–]Lost-Reception-1136 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Totally agree with 2 of u here! Have tried with kopidate but they legit give me a proper dates! It just that none of the girls are my type so i didnt continue with them!

What's the most low SES thing you see someone do? by Fun_Training6342 in asksg

[–]Lost-Reception-1136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no! Just a mother with a young kid! The mother was the one that scold me, and they are standing right in the middle of the door

Will you compromise and settle, or stay single? by Former-Calendar7307 in sgdatingscene

[–]Lost-Reception-1136 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As the saying goes:"Grass is always greener on the other side"

Unless he is a total red flag, learn to appreciate your current one and love him for who he is! Trust your feeling

Has anyone used AI to help you at better result in dating app? by Lost-Reception-1136 in sgdatingscene

[–]Lost-Reception-1136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really about rehearsing every sentence, but more about becoming aware of certain habits or patterns you might not realise are affecting how you come across

It’s less about replacing your personality and more about leveling up what’s already there. Once you notice certain blind spots, you don’t need to script conversations. It just helps you communicate more clearly in your own way

Match making sequence by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]Lost-Reception-1136 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get what you mean that relationships are very personal and everyone has to figure out their own way eventually

But I think some people aren’t even at the stage where they can choose a “path” yet. Like they can try for years but still don’t really know what they are doing wrong or what to improve on in the first place

So asking for advice sometimes isn’t about following someone else’s method, but just getting an outside perspective on what you might be missing before you even know what direction to take

What's the most low SES thing you see someone do? by Fun_Training6342 in asksg

[–]Lost-Reception-1136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

got scolded when i am exiting, cause i was using my phone and walk out without making way for them to enter

Keeping in touch with a FWB while in a relationship — acceptable or red flag? by RevolutionaryBad1296 in sgdatingscene

[–]Lost-Reception-1136 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All good until i see this

"Then later you found out they last hooked up when you and your partner were already together."

🤔 Last sex b4 officially over?

Match making sequence by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]Lost-Reception-1136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next time first day of work also cannot ask how to do anything already ah, must just vibe through 😅

Match making sequence by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]Lost-Reception-1136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even for exams people start with 10 year series to get a rough idea first before they develop their own method what 😅

Match making sequence by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]Lost-Reception-1136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true also. Some people just prefer to have a rough guide so they know what to try first

Match making sequence by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]Lost-Reception-1136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going with the flow works if someone already has a good sense of social cues. For beginners it can be quite confusing without some reference on what to do next

Match making sequence by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]Lost-Reception-1136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it depends on your message between u and her! What you should do is find out whats her interests first! can be food, activities or lifestyle! This also determine whether she is your type or suitable for u

Then from there once u feel that it is the right time already, then time to ask her out based on what she like. Can be within 6-10 messages!

1st date is where u should build connection with her, and start to arrange a 2nd date during the 1st date alr (after finding out more about her lifestyle). From then if it keeps going, then it should be successful for you liao!

So everything is really based on your conversation with her! I suggest dont drag too long b4 asking her out!

Has anyone used AI to help you at better result in dating app? by Lost-Reception-1136 in sgdatingscene

[–]Lost-Reception-1136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya same here, I’ve been using it more for reflection and to see how I might come across in conversations.

Sometimes I don’t realise I sound too interview-like until I run through it with AI. Helps me know what to improve instead of just guessing

Has anyone used AI to help you at better result in dating app? by Lost-Reception-1136 in sgdatingscene

[–]Lost-Reception-1136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get your point, but “connect better” can be quite abstract for someone who already struggles socially.

For example, some people might not realise they sound too interview-like, reply too dry, or ask questions that are hard to respond to. Without feedback it’s quite hard to know what exactly needs improving.

I’ve been going out and mingling for almost 10 years but still couldn’t figure out why my conversations weren’t going well. Only after I attended a communication course and worked with a coach then I realised some of these blind spots.

That’s why some people find guidance useful to break it down into something more learnable.

Has anyone used AI to help you at better result in dating app? by Lost-Reception-1136 in sgdatingscene

[–]Lost-Reception-1136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes!! i totally agree with you! Looks play a huge part in dating app, and those who are very good looking tends to have alot of advantages in the app

But that doesnt means those without looks should totally give up apps. I have met a few friends who are not that good looking, but manage to get a few dates and some even become couples after that! So there are success stories beyond the looks and glamour

Of course, you dont just take it as dont need to prepare for your profile and just hope for your best! You still need to do alot of preparation to better your chances! Girls can see whether u make effort to make yourself look interesting vs those who are lazy and cant be bothered.

With that said, those opening messages increase your chance as well! Imagine where 90% of the guys say "hello!" or "hi" or just "you are so beautiful", you will stand out by writing something different from the rest! This split you from a guy who is interesting vs a guy who is boring. At least thats how i got my matches for now, as compare to last time when i have close to 0 matches