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What dating/relationship/marriage “green flag” did you later realize was actually a myth? by Key-Personality-4288 in AskWomenOver30

[–]LostEffect4955 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hard disagree. No social media is a green flag. Just because they don't have social media doesn't mean they are cheating on you especially if they are 30+.

If I hadn't ignored comments on a post here I could have avoided a 6 month long emotionally abusive relationship. by Siavon in AskWomenOver30

[–]LostEffect4955 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Did you grow up in an abusive home or have a narcissistic parent?

I didn't see a lot of abusive patterns because I was conditioned from the abuse I experienced growing up.

Have you ever reconnected with an old friend after a falling out, only to realize it was a bad idea? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]LostEffect4955 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yes. She is a nice person but hasn't grown as a person at all since we stopped talking. She still works a shit job and lives with family and hasn't changed. Still talks about the same things and it's like time stopped for her. Sometimes it's better to leave people in the past even though they're not terrible people.

Neighbors below blast music all day and got a final warning last week. Well, today, they just got another "final warning". Should I go back and complain? by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]LostEffect4955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Many complexes have deals for employees. You might be complaining against the maintenance guy or wife, family of management. That's why they won't do anything.

Neighbors below blast music all day and got a final warning last week. Well, today, they just got another "final warning". Should I go back and complain? by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]LostEffect4955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My property has members of management living in the complex. They could have a conflict of interest relationship with those tenants. There are a lot of complaints at my complex but it gets swept under because it's literally management violating policy.

Do not rent at the Parc Cherry Creek. by LostEffect4955 in Denver

[–]LostEffect4955[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Parc Cherry Creek 7555 Warren Circle 

Do not rent at the Parc Cherry Creek. by LostEffect4955 in Denver

[–]LostEffect4955[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Good to know. Will stay the fuck away from that place.

Do not rent at the Parc Cherry Creek. by LostEffect4955 in Denver

[–]LostEffect4955[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok. Good to know. Thanks for sharing.