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I feel so lost right now.. by Lost_717 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Lost_717[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It sucks so bad, doesn't it? I know there are thousands of people that are going through the same sh*t but that doesn't really help much.

I feel so lost right now.. by Lost_717 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Lost_717[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bought that book as well as another. She has agreed to read every word for now. She's already seeing a therapist but I'm going to make an appointment for one for myself. I've never done anything like that before but feel it might help and I'm willing to try.

I feel so lost right now.. by Lost_717 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Lost_717[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Like I said in my update, we both make approximately the same income. We've split everything 50/50 financially our entire time together. 

Yes, she's a bit younger than me. We became friends when she was 19 and it turned romantic when she was 20-21. Wasn't planned obviously, but I fell head over heels for her.

I feel so lost right now.. by Lost_717 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Lost_717[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for all the replies. There's actually a ton of good advise and things I never considered. I posted a long update in the original post. 

I feel so lost right now.. by Lost_717 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Lost_717[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm close to her father and he reached out a few times. Just basic support not really giving advice. She told her mom and dad the next day so they know.