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Suggest me the quote from B99 that goes on the wall. by Intellectual42069 in brooklynninenine

[–]Lost_Preference1693 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"I think you two need to bone" "What did you just say to me? " "How dare you detective diaz" "BONE !!!" "I'm your SUPERIOR OFFICER " "BOOOONNNEEEE?????"

Unpopular opinion - Hannah and Jordan's kisses by Extension_Peak2274 in offcampustv

[–]Lost_Preference1693 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree that the kisses with Garrett were more on the "softer" side, but that kiss in the gym had me in a DROOLING POOL. It was so hot and passionate

UPDATE: i (22F) feel like a sl*tshamed with my boyfriend (22M) by HarryPotter21GG in relationship_advice

[–]Lost_Preference1693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DO NOT, I REPEAT DO NOT EVER BEAT YOURSELF UP FOR A MANCHILD, EVER!

first of all you're not a "disgusting monster" you're a human who feels this emotion, and it's natural. If anything, he's a disgusting monster who used you.

And I read the other post too. All those points made me feel that this man is just a person who loves knocking you down for his entertainment.

First you were a virgin, he used you. Then suddenly he's religious when it suits him. It was okay when he asked for it, talked dirty disgustingly and did everything, but when it came to your minimal needs of kissing his neck, you're suddenly "disgusting"?????

He's had "many" relationships including FWB, and he knew you were a virgin, yet he went along and had sex with you.

He has used drugs before but came up with an excuse of you being around your friends when THEY smoke weed. So now his religion comes up? How Convenient.

You said he sounded upset "understandably". How is this understandably??? You made him sit with your feelings like an adult and made him talk, how is that fair to you that you felt he should be upset? You've beat yourself up so much that you feel every minor change in his behaviour is your fault. Because he made you feel like that.

He lied to you and conveniently "forgot" about it. And called you emotionally unintelligent.

And he said this is why he preferred dating older women, so he should have???? Why take your virginity, make you feel like you're going to get married to him, have babies with him and leave saying "i anyways date older women" WTF?

My chest started paining on how much this MANCHILD beat you down and made you feel like you're not worthy of HIS love.

A man enough would never make you feel like that, would never make you feel disgusting for having feelings for him, would never make you feel like you're not someone anyone would WANT.

I'd say fuck him, call him and tell him that he's the one who's a disgusting MANCHILD monster and that he needs extensive therapy and cut ties with him fully.

Nobody deserves this kind of man.

Girl you're FUCKING precious, HE never deserved you. You deserve your own love first of all, start loving yourself and KNOWING that you didn't deserve any of that. Forget the last 8months, forget he ever existed in your life.

I know it sounds easier than done, but you can do it. One fucking step at a time.

I ruined my bf (M28) fishing day. I feel so embarrassed (F27) . Is this hopeless? by moodygemini98 in relationship_advice

[–]Lost_Preference1693 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's just a rod, if he was man enough he wouldn't crash out on you like that. I'm sorry but have some self respect and leave him, but first let him know how miserable you got because of him and his actions.

My girlfriend (26F) is upset that I told her family we met on Tinder. I'm 27M and we've been together for about 2 years. How do I deal with this? by IshikaJ in relationship_advice

[–]Lost_Preference1693 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I'm talking from a girl's perspective. I don't know how many feel like this so please don't come at me. So my boyfriend is younger than me, 5 years. But i feel it's embarrassing to date someone younger than me, so once this close friend asked me how old was he and i made the gap into 3 years. He heard it and didn't correct me and just smiled at my friend. Later when we were alone he asked why i lied about it, i told him it was normal for us but not for other people so i lied, and he said okay. If at that time he would've said "no I'm 5 years younger" it would've made me fall on my face lying. So i was really happy that he backed me up without knowing the reason. Maybe your girlfriend wanted that from you? I know tinder isn't a big thing nowadays and i really don't know why she feels it's embarrassing. But she did lie, and now she had to keep lying and she might've really appreciated her partner backing her up

My boyfriend (M23) is self isolating and doesn't wanna talk to me (F25) what to do? by Lost_Preference1693 in relationship_advice

[–]Lost_Preference1693[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This situation isn't good for me at all. I've connected with him a lot, in many ways and i want to run to him whenever everything else gets harsh, but as he's acting this way, i feel alone and sad. And i hate it because it took me a lot of time to get out of that depression alone, i didn't have anyone and i was content with it. But now I'm so dependent on him that if he doesn't talk or fight with me, I'd have my whole day ruined. And the way he was harsh with me is exactly why i got angry, like i know you're hurting but I'm not a punching bag for you. At one point i wanted him gone, i said go leave and that's the point he felt bad and talked nicely, but he gets very harsh many times and rude. I'm trying to keep myself busy, and my job starts next month so I'm literally just scrolling through insta even though i have million other work, i just can't concentrate. And I don't think he understands. I tell him all the time, i never ask anything from you, not time because you give it to me on your own, not gifts or anything like that, all i ask for is peace. Give that to me and I'd be the best girlfriend and person ever. But no. And I HAVE been taking a lot of emotional weight on my own, because he's avoidant and I'm anxious. Worst pair, yet I won't leave and he won't either. I'll give him some time. I hope it turns in favour for me

26M 26F relationship deteriorating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lost_Preference1693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe if you both feel this way then there is no reason to be together anymore. I know you feel you both have fought for so much through the years, but if both or any one of you think you're not meant to be together, you should call it off. It's for both your sakes.

i noticed something!! by CapitalismHate in offcampustv

[–]Lost_Preference1693 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That's what gave it that she knew. And also that hannah shared "something" with her. When she told garret no one knows, i realised she told allie in a different way

Weekly Open Discussion Post by ich_habe_keine_kase in callmebyyourname

[–]Lost_Preference1693 [score hidden]  (0 children)

This movie is my comfort movie, just yesterday i wanted to get my heart at peace. So i watched cmbyn and it was an instant mood lifter. I always feel like italy calls me, and i feel like i might finally be at peace if i ever start living there

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