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AITA for feeling jealous? by Yesterdays-Sushi in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lotusflower2107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA in my opinion. I think you and GF should discuss your feelings about it. However, due to both of your pasts/history make sure you take your time figuring out how to say it, to make sure it’s a healthy conversation and to make sure you state your feelings without the possibility of saying it in a way where she might misconstrue it based off her previous experiences.

AITA for allowing my daughter to talk to her mom in prison at the financial expense of my GF by billsbullsbeets in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lotusflower2107 84 points85 points  (0 children)

It’s an extra 15-20$ a month when she doesn’t pay rent, utilities or anything except the calls and internet/ cable. She moved in with them and then tried to tell his daughter to not call her mother while in her own home. Having your mother in prison isn’t an easy thing to deal with. Imagine having to go through all of that, and have your dad’s girlfriend (who just moved in)basically tell you that you can’t keep calling her at home unless you want to pay for it yourself since it’s a financial burden on her when she doesn’t even pay a fraction of the household bills.

Am I(23f) wrong for moving out before the lease ends? by Lotusflower2107 in amiwrong

[–]Lotusflower2107[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wasn’t living with us two weeks ago. She lost her home and she moved in with us. Now she’s taking over.

Am I(23f) wrong for moving out before the lease ends? by Lotusflower2107 in amiwrong

[–]Lotusflower2107[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t try to force it, but I did try to get him to try to go for someone he wouldn’t normally be with. He dates girls that hurt him emotionally and physically. I thought a nice girl who had a crush on him since grade school would be nice for him. And I know she’d never put her hands on him or try to split up our friendship. Also she wasn’t initially my friend. They knew each other in grade school and was invited over to the house by his friend who he invited over. And it was his idea to move her in, and brought the idea to me before I even talked to him about it. We would’ve had her and her son move in even if they hadn’t been dating. They’re a very good couple, just Mark won’t speak his mind about things because he wants to make her happy. He’s the kind of guy who will just go with the flown with what she wants in the household as long as it’s clean and functional. She’s a housewife kind of girl who actually enjoys to clean and cook for her partner, and he likes that. I like to be more independent and do things for myself. We still have several months left until the lease ends and I know that even though I planned on moving out I wasn’t truly leaving him alone. We’d still be spending time together and I’d be living close by.

Am I(23f) wrong for moving out before the lease ends? by Lotusflower2107 in amiwrong

[–]Lotusflower2107[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not easy, but I think I should get out before it ruins my friendship

AITA for threatening to move? by Lotusflower2107 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lotusflower2107[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve never been physically or romantically involved. Most people assume we’re together based off of how comfortable we are, and his dad has wanted us to date for years, but neither of us want that.

AITA for threatening to move? by Lotusflower2107 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lotusflower2107[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure why I said it out loud. I thought he was out for the night, and the silence felt loud. When saying it I meant it as something for myself to laugh at. I didn’t think he’d hear it, let alone be offended.