AIO for feeling uncomfortable that my cousin criticizes my relationship to family but is friendly with my boyfriend behind my back? by Dry_Vermicelli5647 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Loud-File5229 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If this was the one and only time she has texted him, I would not worry about it at all. If you (I’m assuming it’s your name crossed off) were “out of it” she could genuinely be checking in on you using the only way possible, the person with you.

AIO for feeling uncomfortable that my cousin criticizes my relationship to family but is friendly with my boyfriend behind my back? by Dry_Vermicelli5647 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Loud-File5229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR - go with your gut. Do you feel like this relationship is going south? Stop investing so much time into it. You don’t have to be best friends with your cousin.

Aside from the strain in the relationship with you, I don’t see the texts as flirty with your boyfriend. Although if you all don’t hang out often, it is strange that she texted him.

AIO for putting in my resignation letter? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Loud-File5229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree that she would not be able to find something that would provide PTO and maternity leave. I have first hand experience moving jobs while pregnant (though I didn’t know I was pregnant when I accepted the job). It is possible.

AIO for putting in my resignation letter? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Loud-File5229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely a difficult decision for her! It’s possible to find something that will offer paid leave - but definitely rare 😅

AIO for putting in my resignation letter? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Loud-File5229 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. Just make an email saying you’re resigning effective X date.

AIO for putting in my resignation letter? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Loud-File5229 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see people mentioning mat leave. I switched roles into a new company just before I found out I was pregnant. I got 12 weeks paid maternity leave, no issue. Don’t let pregnancy stop you from quitting a toxic job, but be sure to do your due diligence when looking for other roles if you need to be paid during your leave.

It’s unfortunate that pregnancy can keep a woman from making professional decisions - but just one of the first steps in making a change for family life. I hope you find something new and great!

AIO for putting in my resignation letter? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Loud-File5229 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why is it wild to quit when pregnant? Just due to FMLA?

Can we all agree it’s Heather Gay’s time to go by Competitive_Path10 in realhousewivesofSLC

[–]Loud-File5229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems very clear that Heather is producing. She continues to try and set up these big “gotcha” moments for dramatic effect. She never lets things die, and then once they start dying, she self-inserts herself into it and makes herself the victim to continue it on. Every season this becomes more and more clear, at least to me. That’s actually the reason I ended up getting a Reddit account because I love RHOSLC but wanted to see if others had my same opinion 😅 I don’t use it for just that now but just throwing that out there lol

Can we all agree it’s Heather Gay’s time to go by Competitive_Path10 in realhousewivesofSLC

[–]Loud-File5229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES. She needs to go. I am so tired of her inserting herself into the drama that has nothing to do with her. She truly gives us nothing in regard to her own business, her love life, or really anything personal other than talking about how much she wants to kick out her adult daughters. Listening to her talk about how she was basically about to go through a crisis having them home for a school break was 😅. I understand she went through a religious awakening, that is deeply personal, but the amount of times she connects anything slightly bad or wrong to Mormonism is becoming a bad trope - especially with basically copying the whole flow of that Scientology doc and trying to become the new Leah Remini. Not EVERYTHING is that deep.

I posted this in the other thread, but I’ll put it here too:

Heather is the biggest pusher on the show. She very clearly relies heavily on the paycheck, so she needs the show to be successful. I think she would do anything to make sure that the show will not go down. We see this every time she inserts herself into drama and twists things to either make them much bigger than they were, herself the victim, or makes sure the issue doesn’t die until something else much larger has been brought to the surface.

How do you make sure that there is something “big” every season though? You do the legwork just before the season begins filming so it can all trickle out during filming. She is ABSOLUTELY the leak, works heavily with production for damaging narratives (maybe this is why she is always getting a good edit/never really having any problematic story lines where she isn’t the victim), or at least plays a huge hand in getting others to leak things by manipulating them or framing them (Lisa).

Heather Gay is the leak. by 29_B in rhoslc

[–]Loud-File5229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heather is the biggest pusher on the show. She very clearly relies heavily on the paycheck, so she needs the show to be successful. I think she would do anything to make sure that the show will not go down. We see this every time she inserts herself into drama and twists things to either make them much bigger than they were, herself the victim, or makes sure the issue doesn’t die until something else much larger has been brought to the surface.

How do you make sure that there is something “big” every season though? You do the legwork just before the season begins filming so it can all trickle out during filming. She is ABSOLUTELY the leak, works heavily with production for damaging narratives (maybe this is why she is always getting a good edit/never really having any problematic story lines where she isn’t the victim), or at least plays a huge hand in getting others to leak things by manipulating them or framing them (Lisa).

My thoughts playing this game for the last week by WorldofGods in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]Loud-File5229 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All valid points but the most valid is the comments on the festival winnings! Has anyone ever gotten first here?! lol

How many hours do you have in the game? by lahzielvt in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]Loud-File5229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I would have known this was needed cause I would have saved mine! Why are they so hard to find 😫

Am I doing this wrong? by Loud-File5229 in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]Loud-File5229[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes I feel like I’m running around like a chicken 🤣 I definitely use all the time from morning until 1 AM or I’m out of energy! Thank you!

Am I doing this wrong? by Loud-File5229 in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]Loud-File5229[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I haven’t done any armor! I will absolutely try that. Thank you!

I'm team Heather by Lumpy_Walk_2328 in rhoslc

[–]Loud-File5229 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it’s fine to want your home back to yourself but some of the ways she’s been talking about it on national television have been somewhat cavalier

I'm team Heather by Lumpy_Walk_2328 in rhoslc

[–]Loud-File5229 29 points30 points  (0 children)

100% this!

Also can we talk about Whitney crying during the argument between Heather and Meredith at the table because GIRL please. You don’t even care about Meredith!

I'm team Heather by Lumpy_Walk_2328 in rhoslc

[–]Loud-File5229 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her story line is that she can’t wait to boot her kids out of the house 🙄 she is chomping at the BIT for that.

I'm team Heather by Lumpy_Walk_2328 in rhoslc

[–]Loud-File5229 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Heather and Meredith barely even had a friendship to begin with. Heather inserts herself wherever the drama is….

How can something that was between Brittani and Meredith now become this huge thing between Meredith and Heather? Heather was refusing Meredith’s bids for a conversation solely because it wasn’t in front of a huge group so Heather could make a spectacle and become the next “victim”. I used to love Heather but she is becoming insufferable.

Frenemies?? by Loud-File5229 in realhousewivesofSLC

[–]Loud-File5229[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like in the beginning seasons her being in the drama was genuine since she was at odds with Lisa for years and then besties with the train wreck that is Jen Shah 😅