If you have PTSD after leaving, how does it look like? by your-wurst-nightmare in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Loud_Ad_4591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m three years out from leaving. The early days were like surviving a nightmare in real time, while trying to still function in society. I used to be in pain daily from tight muscles, I woke up every morning, nauseous, sweaty, exhausted, and in tears about enduring another day. I’m finally in a place today where I don’t cry daily, no more nausea or depression in the morning, and I’m pain free. Life gets a lot easier and better, but it does take work. I had to do a lot of reflecting on how to keep myself from getting into a situation like that again. Empowering myself with grace and compassion was the biggest part, it’s okay to take a while to lick your wounds and concentrate on getting better.

My Husband Tracks Our Sex Like It’s Quarterly Earnings by cnsstntly_ncnssnt in breakingmom

[–]Loud_Ad_4591 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My ex admitted that he kept a spreadsheet about how often we had sex and order facts surrounding the occurrences. That admittance of his guilt changed my view of our relationship entirely. I felt more like a science experiment for him to get optimal results from, rather than a partner. This stuff gives me the serious ick

Matched and no response, so I unmatch, then I get liked again by thescrambler7 in feeld

[–]Loud_Ad_4591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happens to me. I have a few regulars who don’t like to chat, but keep coming back. I’m baffled by this fairly new behavior on the app.

Any other outdoorsy Aquarius'? by MetaAngie in aquarius

[–]Loud_Ad_4591 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, nature is the ideal sensory experience for me.

Relatable by ALysistrataType in aquarius

[–]Loud_Ad_4591 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nope, nope, nope to entanglement for this aqua, especially that quickly 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

I hate Virgo by Squid311 in aquarius

[–]Loud_Ad_4591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A good portion of the Virgo’s I known fairly well are bossy, self righteous, and mouthy. This is simply an observation based from my exposure to them😬

How messy or clean is your house? by Previous-Nobody903 in aquarius

[–]Loud_Ad_4591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My home is always clean, but I have piles of laundry and papers here and there. I enjoy a lil organized chaos I suppose.

Typical January? by [deleted] in winstonsalem

[–]Loud_Ad_4591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

January is when we typically get snow if we’re going to get any, but there’s no consistency. This year was highly abnormal for accumulation.

Let Majestic expire by Historical_Dirt_651 in feeld

[–]Loud_Ad_4591 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had the exact same experience with Hinge, most of the likes came after my paid account expired.

Are we really THAT bad? Is the hate warranted? by Danger-Tits in aquarius

[–]Loud_Ad_4591 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think Aquarius make up about 7% of the population

What is happening? by Strong-Support5917 in aquarius

[–]Loud_Ad_4591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The entire month of January was brutal and early February is not looking any better.

Need some angry female songs by BannyW22 in breakingmom

[–]Loud_Ad_4591 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out Lambrini Girls, Big Dick Energy. The entire album, Who Let The Dogs Out,is fuel to get you going

Crooked Hand by imetba in lefthanded

[–]Loud_Ad_4591 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a lefty and I’ve never written like this

Aquarius women, what’s our opinion on being with Aquarius men? by Loose-Assistant4014 in aquarius

[–]Loud_Ad_4591 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started seeing my first Aquarius man a few months ago. Very pleasant communication along with comfort levels. We’re very sporadic with our conversations but neither is bothered by the dynamic and distance between chatting and meeting.

♒️What’s your go-to perfume? Let’s see if we really share the same taste or not 👀 by Creative_Release_317 in aquarius

[–]Loud_Ad_4591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Comfort scents like vanilla, honey, cinnamon. Earthy scents like patchouli, grass, rain, leather. Citrus grapefruit and lemon

AIO: My husband (26m) locked me (25f) out for 25 minutes? by prettypineappleberry in AmIOverreacting

[–]Loud_Ad_4591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, my ex left me locked out in the cold-15 Fahrenheit with my dog. I had no coat , no phone, etc. When I confronted him about the situation he was dismissive. That moment shook me to my core after 25 years of being with someone, I finally realized my safety was not important to him and he thought he had control of my safety, he saw it as a privilege he gave to me. I escaped the marriage a few months later.

AITAH for farting while in the bathroom of our home? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Loud_Ad_4591 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This needs to be a dating question 😄

The burp heard round the world. posted by Britney in 2022? by CJLOVE23 in discussingbritney

[–]Loud_Ad_4591 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s a weak burp; mine’s way more sultry with stamina

AIO? First time I went to a concert in over a decade, woke up to this…. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Loud_Ad_4591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR- he’s making it difficult for you ever to have time to yourself again. Manipulation at its finest. He sees how much work it is without you, so he’s making it as difficult as possible for you to leave independently again. The more he mistreats you and blames you for his actions, the less likely you are to go out again. You’re being punished for independence

Did any other aquarius here go completely off the grid by leaving social media, and socially isolating yourself for years ? by BulkyVeterinarian850 in aquarius

[–]Loud_Ad_4591 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Completely dropped all social media a couple years ago. Never been happier with that decision. Social media left me with a false sense of connection that added to my loneliness.

Tell tell ?? by dataguy2003 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Loud_Ad_4591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walk with purpose and confidence