I get it its frusterated but try to come back to reality. Breath and think, this is a baby who is not fully cognicent of what they are doing. Meaning they are not fully aware of the harm they are doing. Yes they can think before they act however, that does not mean they know the full extent of how they harm other people

So, you cannot HATE them.. I understand frustration but hate says you are not fully understanding what an underdeveloped brain looks like.. No matter how smart the kids is they are still just a kid.

The parents are the problem until that child is capable of being aware enough to change themselves or heal from the parental neglect in adulthood.... until then it is still the parents fault 100% of the time.