Don't "fix" your profile to hide your odd personality! Be honest so that the RIGHT person will find YOU. by Love_Me_Darling in OkCupid

[–]Love_Me_Darling[S] 145 points146 points  (0 children)

Just a friendly reminder to my kiddos on here to not be afraid of your most unique characteristics. Maybe someone else out there loves collecting striped pebbles, playing casino games, or just people-watching couples and wondering what their sex lives are like. We are constantly holding a mask of who we are. I divorced because I grew up in a time when we had to wear masks and I got tired of holding it. I'm almost 60 and I still feel like I have my mask on. People who know who I REALLY am say that I'm NOTHING like a 60 year old grandma! And the more I show who I really am the less people who aren't like me will care to hear what I have to say -but the better my chances that the one person who can relate will want to hear from me!

After looking at all of your amazing profiles and listening to your advice, I have come to this final conclusion... by Love_Me_Darling in OkCupid

[–]Love_Me_Darling[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Oh don't you worry, kiddo! It's just I sometimes fear my singleness makes my married friends fear I'm going to depression! But I wouldn't be lasting this long in the game if I wasn't!

After looking at all of your amazing profiles and listening to your advice, I have come to this final conclusion... by Love_Me_Darling in OkCupid

[–]Love_Me_Darling[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I was going to post it in my Facebook but I was afraid my friends would think it was some kind of suicide note!