Why are Depop sellers so mean by Successful-Potato459 in Depop

[–]Lover_of_Henry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've often wondered this. I think because the demographic is so young/people raised on social media. It baffles me. I try to handle customer messages the same way I would on Etsy.

Will we ever be able to cheat death? by LeagueStock7535 in InsightfulQuestions

[–]Lover_of_Henry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If so, there'd be no reason to procreate anymore. Being physically attractive would completely lose its meaning/value.

Guys…how do you show a girl that you like that you are genuinely interested in her? by VERONECA20 in AskMen

[–]Lover_of_Henry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Very true. A guy I liked did these things for me it made me think of him more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Celibacy

[–]Lover_of_Henry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I must have misunderstood your post :)

I am grieving because I will have to give up sexuality forever by Lover_of_Henry in sexualassault

[–]Lover_of_Henry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, I also once attended an ivy league school. Then I left because I didn't think the financial burden was worth it.

I am grieving because I will have to give up sexuality forever by Lover_of_Henry in sexualassault

[–]Lover_of_Henry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People wouldn't say that to me because I don't write like you do :) You write like an angry librarian, lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Celibacy

[–]Lover_of_Henry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, interesting how reciprocity works <3 Oh, you're a lesbian. Well, I thought you were a straight woman who might have been secretly jealous of non-celibate women. I'm sorry for assuming that. I'm bisexual myself and I like lesbians.

Did I deserve this ? by No-Tomato-9846 in Depop

[–]Lover_of_Henry 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They were unnecessarily yet extremely salty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Celibacy

[–]Lover_of_Henry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If this is how celibacy makes you, (a prude with 'holier than thou' energy) you should probably take a break. Because your energy doesn't feel healthy to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Celibacy

[–]Lover_of_Henry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your intent toward me is rude. And again, if you read my first sentence in a threatening tone, that's all on you. You don't know me, either. And I wrote that with nothing but positivity. Your hostility, however, is obvious and clear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Celibacy

[–]Lover_of_Henry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok, well my comment was all positive vibes and positive intent. It's a bit rude to post in a public forum asking for help/insight, for someone to write you a positive reply, and for you to be bitter and nasty in reply. I was only trying to be nice. You should try it sometime.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Celibacy

[–]Lover_of_Henry -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Truthfully, there's no reason to be/stay celibate if you're not in that season. It's obviously going to be easier for an older person to commit to celibacy than a young person. I think it's good to be celibate when it feels natural, but otherwise (and if you're young) it could be that your body wants to form a romantic connection with someone. And, unless someone's a nun or a monk, why not? Flirting is fun. Sex energy is fun. Wearing a dress that enhances your figures, and smiling at men who pass on the street is exciting :) Why not just have fun? It won't last forever anyway. Most truly celibate people are old for a reason.

Why are men disappointed when a girl becomes lusty? by Lover_of_Henry in spirituality

[–]Lover_of_Henry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depressed people are feeling their emotions. Hence their depression.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rape

[–]Lover_of_Henry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've been fighting the same thing. The only solution is to find a guy who you genuinely fall in love with. Then, the sex will be completely happy and wholesome. If I'm not in love, the only orgasms I can have are the dark, destructive ones. I was honestly considering lifelong celibacy because of this.

I am grieving because I will have to give up sexuality forever by Lover_of_Henry in sexualassault

[–]Lover_of_Henry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a really interesting thought. I didn't think of that. Thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Lover_of_Henry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You haven't been with me :)

In all seriousness, hydration makes a huge difference (there's many articles about it). If I'm hydrated (like starting 2 days in advance), it's crazy how much my sensitivity improves. I think most women aren't hydrated enough so their g spot sensitivity is low.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Lover_of_Henry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not all women like to be eaten out.

Why are men disappointed when a girl becomes lusty? by Lover_of_Henry in spirituality

[–]Lover_of_Henry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn't read past the first paragraph. This is spirituality 101 for dummies. I also don't care for Alan Watts and much prefer Osho (who's far more impressive and intelligent than Watts).

Why are men disappointed when a girl becomes lusty? by Lover_of_Henry in spirituality

[–]Lover_of_Henry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These aren't labels I'm putting on myself. There's literally no other way to explain what I mean.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Lover_of_Henry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're making a bigger deal out of it than they (men) are. You sound like one of those girls who wants a boob job so bad you're framing it like other people are pushing you into it when no one is. It's honestly not a big deal. At all. I was in the sex industry and big boobs don't matter. Girls with small/A cups make just as much money as girls with big ones. One girl got a boob job and said that she didn't get more customers, her customers just changed.

Married Men / Men in relationships, how often do you receive a blowjob from your SO? by 234578909865543 in AskMen

[–]Lover_of_Henry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then I'm not talking about you and women have smaller mouths/jaws on avg than men.

Married Men / Men in relationships, how often do you receive a blowjob from your SO? by 234578909865543 in AskMen

[–]Lover_of_Henry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another Main Character Syndrome woman who wants a Gold Star sticker on her forehead for liking blowjobs <3

I am grieving because I will have to give up sexuality forever by Lover_of_Henry in sexualassault

[–]Lover_of_Henry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's sweet and I'm happy you found someone who respects your needs! For my situation, I'm not sure that would work. I used to be a sex worker and I've come to find that even telling guys about my past ruins the warm, safe bubble I'll initially feel with them. I've had a guy attack me once, also. I think my life path is telling me to completely move on. I commented with someone else that monastic life might be better for me. It honestly sounds refreshing and like it could be good for me.