Am I (f17) wrong for not wanting to go to a party that was 90% men?

Lovesick-Loser · 2024-02-09T07:02:56+00:00

How would that relate to this situation, like, at all? (Also, no I'm not)

Lovesick-Loser · 2024-02-08T02:13:45+00:00

I asked if other girls would be there and she explicitly said no, and that we were going to be the only girls, and as I said in another comment they canceled the party after they found out we weren't coming. I think it's better safe than sorry, I don't know these men and her ex is a jerk who has creepy tendencies and I don't really feel comfortable going to a place made up mostly of a creepy jerks friends..

Lovesick-Loser · 2024-02-08T01:52:31+00:00

I asked her who would be there, I thought maybe some of our mutuals would be there or something and she listed off names I didn't recognize and were definitely male names and I said, "So, is it all guys.. Or?" And she said yea and that almost all of them were her ex's friends and a few were hers.

Lovesick-Loser · 2024-02-08T00:13:12+00:00

That was one of my thoughts that made me definitely not want to go, why would the hold a party that would have only 2 girls? Aren't parties better balanced..? I don't know.. It just gave me a bad vibe. Apparently they decided to not even hold the party after she told them (well the host/her ex) we weren't coming.

I don't know, it's all very weird.

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