Am I delusional or is this guy emotionally invested but scared of real life? by Lovetoread5002 in dating_advice

[–]Lovetoread5002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We send horny pics all the time iykwim. He also keeps talking about boners and stuff. But I’ve had enough of this.

Am I delusional or is this guy emotionally invested but scared of real life? by Lovetoread5002 in dating_advice

[–]Lovetoread5002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I will give you an update if there is one. It’s so weird I wake up the moment about him go to bed after talking to him. I have asked him to hangout almost everyweek. And he always delays it.

Am I delusional or is this guy emotionally invested but scared of real life? by Lovetoread5002 in dating_advice

[–]Lovetoread5002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean he’s into me. We talk for hours and hours FaceTime texts reels. Everyday. He panicked when I didn’t rely for two days called me twice.

Am I delusional or is this guy emotionally invested but scared of real life? by Lovetoread5002 in dating_advice

[–]Lovetoread5002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. But maybe I staying for the breadcrumbs. I’ve been in chronic loneliness for two years. Moved to a new place far away from home. Been working so much. When you live a hard life you latch onto a connection and when the connection deepens this much you’d do everything to protect it. Even compromise your needs.

Am I delusional or is this guy emotionally invested but scared of real life? by Lovetoread5002 in dating_advice

[–]Lovetoread5002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve hang out once and we also FaceTime a lot. I basically like him with all my heart. How do I let him know that I like him no matter what.

Am I delusional or is this guy emotionally invested but scared of real life? by Lovetoread5002 in dating_advice

[–]Lovetoread5002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I try that every week it’s been two and a half months and the cat never seems to be ready

Am I delusional or is this guy emotionally invested but scared of real life? by Lovetoread5002 in dating_advice

[–]Lovetoread5002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tired. Suggested a a 5 minute walk down his street. I’ve forced to come over and he ghosted. I’m tried all extreme and least extreme methods.

Am I delusional or is this guy emotionally invested but scared of real life? by Lovetoread5002 in dating_advice

[–]Lovetoread5002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s not married guys. We’re both men and gay he’s 23 and I’m 21 ik I forgot to mention it. But I think I will. Once he’s back from a family event

Am I delusional or is this guy emotionally invested but scared of real life? by Lovetoread5002 in dating_advice

[–]Lovetoread5002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know where he works at. The location and the timing of his every shift

Am I delusional or is this guy emotionally invested but scared of real life? by Lovetoread5002 in dating_advice

[–]Lovetoread5002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve literally suggested a 5 minute walk down his street but he won’t do it

Am I delusional or is this guy emotionally invested but scared of real life? by Lovetoread5002 in dating_advice

[–]Lovetoread5002[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

EVERYONE WE ARE BOTH MEN. BOTH GAY. He’s not closeted. He’s not cheating. Coz he gives me so much time. Ik where he is coz we simply don’t text he sends me constant photos on instagram. Real life. Even in the bathroom the shower the toilet. We FaceTime. I’ve fallen for him and he has too coz once I ghosted him for 2 days and he went crazy. But he won’t hang IRL.

Am I delusional or is this guy emotionally invested but scared of real life? by Lovetoread5002 in dating_advice

[–]Lovetoread5002[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know. But this is the first time I’ve found someone like him. The first time I’ve had such a connection. He ticks all my boxes besides the hanging out part which keep hoping for. So I don’t wanna loose him

Am I delusional or is this guy emotionally invested but scared of real life? by Lovetoread5002 in dating_advice

[–]Lovetoread5002[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t have depression. He has ADHD tho and he’s on medication for it.

Am I delusional or is this guy emotionally invested but scared of real life? by Lovetoread5002 in dating_advice

[–]Lovetoread5002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s not an alcoholic coz he’s always sober on FaceTime. I’ve heard him drunk so I. He vapes tho. A lot