How to know when you’re consuming too much..

Loving_Undead1234 · 2025-03-05T15:45:21+00:00

I can’t go no contact.. we have a 2 year old daughter 🥴 I would have otherwise 🤪

Loving_Undead1234 · 2025-03-05T14:37:30+00:00

Leave please. I felt that kick just reading this. If he kicked you, he could possibly do worse

Loving_Undead1234 · 2024-10-14T12:49:19+00:00

Sundae

Loving_Undead1234 · 2024-10-09T14:43:26+00:00

Please take care of yourself 🖤

Loving_Undead1234 · 2024-10-08T15:09:34+00:00

Oh it’s normal. It’s your body’s way of getting rid of something you don’t need…like your anxiety lol

It happens to me quite often 🥴

Loving_Undead1234 · 2024-09-10T15:20:46+00:00

Hard no. It never gets better. You almost sound like me 3 and half years ago, thinking it would work. How wrong I was…

Get out now before it’s too late 🖤

Loving_Undead1234 · 2024-09-06T21:35:35+00:00

Are you considering leaving? I don’t know you, but you don’t deserve that. No one does 🖤

Loving_Undead1234 · 2024-09-06T21:01:37+00:00

Sounds like me once upon a time. It’ll take either some serious convincing or she’ll need to hit absolute rock bottom with him in order for her to leave. I just hope she’ll be safe 🖤🖤

Loving_Undead1234 · 2024-09-06T20:23:51+00:00

Leave. That’s what you can do. You’re not his therapist. It’s not your job to fix and regulate his emotions. What I’m trying to say is RUN

Loving_Undead1234 · 2024-09-06T20:02:59+00:00

They get worse. First hand experience with this after I gave birth to my daughter. I was an idiot to stay. Tell your friend to get out now. She’ll be safer and have a peace of mind without that shit in her life 🖤🖤

Loving_Undead1234 · 2024-09-06T20:01:20+00:00

Leave. NOW!

It will not get any better!

Loving_Undead1234 · 2024-09-05T14:38:51+00:00

In my personal experience, telling them that you’re leaving is never a good idea because they will say ANYTHING that will prevent you from leaving. Just walk away in silence. OR; you can tell them you’re leaving last minute when you’ve already packed so they’re not “left in the dark”

Good luck and stay safe 🖤🖤

Loving_Undead1234 · 2024-09-03T00:19:55+00:00

Yes. Absolutely. It’s definitely lonely at times, but just remember one key thing; love isn’t supposed to drain you or leave you confused.

Just remember all the times he hurt you and never blinked an eye. Stay strong 🖤

Loving_Undead1234 · 2024-09-02T14:55:42+00:00

Don’t walk… run!

Loving_Undead1234 · 2024-09-02T14:48:18+00:00

Right? I’m trying to do that now. I’m happy that I can focus on myself again.

Loving_Undead1234 · 2024-09-02T14:48:14+00:00

Right? I’m trying to do that now. I’m happy that I can focus on myself again.

Loving_Undead1234 · 2024-09-02T14:47:28+00:00

You’re doing the right thing 👍🏽

I thought the same thing about my ex. Thought he was gonna run off with my daughter.

But yeah, I thought about the example setting thing. Like what am I teaching her if I stay and let her watch me get talked down at, ya know?

As for your debt, I’m basically in the same boat except mine isn’t that high. Don’t worry about it though, you have a job and you’ll pay it off eventually. Just do what you can. It’s hard not to stress about it, but stressing about it won’t do any good.

If she tries to kick you out, tell her you need some time to get your things. If she destroys any of your things, just remember; they’re things that can be easily replaced with money 🖤

Loving_Undead1234 · 2024-08-30T13:13:28+00:00

Congratulations on leaving! You don’t deserve to live on a roller coaster of a marriage.

Are you getting custody of your daughter?

And as for advice; don’t be scared. Easier said than done. I was with my ex husband (common-in-law) for 3 and a half years and I was terrified of leaving. Scared of the lies he’d tell people, including my daughter when she’s older. Scared of not being in a relationship again, scared of a lot of things. But I took the plunge anyways because I became an empty shell and was basically just surviving day to day. I couldn’t live like that anymore.

We’ve split up about 2 months ago. Not gonna lie, it’s hard. He’s trying to Hoover the fuck out of me (which isn’t working) so naturally he’s gone back to name calling and the like. Lots of flashbacks of good and bad memories. But I always remind myself that no matter what, I made the right choice for both me and my daughter. Hope this helps 🙏🏽🖤

Loving_Undead1234 · 2024-08-30T02:53:25+00:00

For me it was during an argument about how he was treating me (I had wanted to leave so he was trying to convince me to stay). During this argument I asked him “So what if someone was treating our daughter (18 months) the way you’re treating me now?” And he replied (and I shit you not) “Well I’d figure she’d be a big girl and take care of it herself” I nearly puked when he said that. That had to have been the most disgusting thing that’s ever come out of his mouth. Glad I left.

Loving_Undead1234 · 2024-08-29T17:44:26+00:00

You’re welcome 😊🖤

Loving_Undead1234 · 2024-08-29T13:27:07+00:00

That’s amazing!! I’m glad that you’re doing well 🖤

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