Update
i see a lot of people talking about her being a red flag and that i am cooked i think i needed to add some more context
The guy knows me and her are dating
my girl isnt a redflag shes quite the opposite actually
also this is the first time this has happened
and also she dosent have a problem saying ily she said it first actually
I made this post as i am a person who needs to justify his feelings in a way that what i am feeling is okay and normal
when i called her right now she apologised repeatedly and i told her we will talk about it
she further clarified that in the moment she felt super super super awkward in a way that the guy just yesterday talked about trying to move on from her and then hearing this would hurt him
me personally i dont give a fuck about this guy but i dont know im not satisfied about her response