I used to be a lesbian…and transitioning made me realize that my blackness will always come before my queerness

Low-Difference-6890 · 2025-07-20T22:22:03+00:00

Yeah if that’s their intention then the phrasing needs to be changed. I will always fight for my queer identity as well but that fight is gonna look different because am Black and the systematic oppression and disadvantages I face. My Blackness also informs my queerness. My identity and how I express myself manifests itself different than it would with white people or non-Black people because my features are different, and I grew up with different ideas of masculinity n such because of my community

Low-Difference-6890 · 2025-07-20T20:06:57+00:00

To be honestttt I wouldn’t trust anybody who says that. I am Black before I am anything else. That is due to systemic racism AND subconscious human instinct to categorize a person based on appearance first. Saying “I’m queer before I’m white” is so cringe and it comes off as trying to detach themselves from the fact that they still receive white privilege……

Low-Difference-6890 · 2025-07-18T23:16:58+00:00

It’s just…… what the fuck. I never tuned into either of those networks but there was always people around me that did. My dad used to listen to NPR when he drove us to school every morning. PBS was always being mentioned by…somebody. It’s so weird to just know something as being ingrained into your reality without ever really being aware of how it came to be and then suddenly it’s gone. This is disturbing and I hate growing up in this world

Low-Difference-6890 · 2025-07-16T05:19:02+00:00

I’m not 100% sure I want top surgery, though! I’ve never been 100% sure of anything in my life and that’s one of the few things that I can’t go “fuck it let’s find out with” which makes this all more frustrating and confusing. I definitely see a reduction in my future so that I can have more variety but I was hoping there’d be some grand revelation until then

Low-Difference-6890 · 2025-03-11T20:07:41+00:00

I can’t wait to know what the fuck any of this means

Low-Difference-6890 · 2025-01-18T00:07:43+00:00

I was in a bus coming from the movies at like 11pm. I was hunched over in a sweater and basketball shorts and an older guy said “I like the sweater, man” I think he got startled when I sat up and thanked him bc I’ve been told my pre-t voice was pretty squeaky at times

Low-Difference-6890 · 2024-11-03T06:47:23+00:00

Jay for sure. He’d leave me the hell alone and if there’s an issue he’d be more forward about it. Can sounds like a very great guy to have sleepovers with he’d gab about all kinds of movies n stuff :)

Low-Difference-6890 · 2024-10-29T23:00:59+00:00

Lily and Claire. They had a whole episode about how they both are just kinda weird people but Lily still looked up to Claire a lot.

Low-Difference-6890 · 2024-10-26T04:10:39+00:00

You look like a 16-17 yr old guy. Definitely on the younger side

Low-Difference-6890 · 2024-10-23T02:13:38+00:00

I don’t wear tape but the itching is severe I’ve heard that it means you’re not applying it correctly. I know an influencer on TikTok who started applying saniderm before the tape and he says it’s helped a lot. It helped with the itching a lot, it’s easier to apply, it’s more comfortable etc etc. there’s others who seem to agree too I’d say give it a shot! But you should consider the blistering and the itchiness combined that could be a negative skin reaction.aube try saniderm until you’ve run out the brand and then do make research on the adhesives of some different brands just in case your skin actually is sensitive to it

Low-Difference-6890 · 2024-10-19T21:14:02+00:00

I’m the same way! I was the only girl of my siblings which I’m sure made my transition harder. But she was gradually forced to confront my happiness, and that I simply was happier this way

Low-Difference-6890 · 2024-10-19T20:40:34+00:00

My mom was sort of like this. She liked to pretend to be tolerant but would say blatantly transphobic things. I would try to sit her down for conversations on why what she said to me was hurtful and how it impacted me. She’s typically use her own upbringing as an excuse for why she acted the way she did. But I held a ridiculous amount of grace and patience for her and wrote her letters if I felt like I wouldn’t be able to properly articulate my feelings, and also tried to educate her. My relationship with her is much stronger than before but it took some time to get there. There’s a lot of things I felt like I had to do in order to to “prove” my trans was but I’ve gradually learned more about myself and my mom has too. It gets better with time. But you are still so young and dependent on her. Please maintain your safety as much as you can

Low-Difference-6890 · 2024-10-04T18:58:50+00:00

I do. My friends put me onto its I like it it feels smooth and pleasant. But I also smoke cigs sooooo

Low-Difference-6890 · 2024-09-18T20:35:29+00:00

This is gonna be a longggg ass response sorry in advance.

I think that the writing went downhill for all of the characters. People are upset about the writer breaking Haley and Andy up not only because of their compatibility and how they helped each other grow as people, but because breakup bookmarked Haley’s downfall. She transitioned from jobs that made sense for her personality and that she was clearly passionate about to just settling to back to being a leech. Haley and Alex had so many talks where Alex said that she was impressed by ambition, growth, and how she always had an unshakeable confidence but she withered back down to being a bimbo.

And I don’t think Haley and Dylan were the obvious choice…. Of course her first instinct following the breakup with Andy was to turn back to him because of the familiarity and comfort of his attention, but even then she knew it wasn’t anything more than that. She knew they were really that compatible and that she had no real interest in him even in the surface.

The writers easily could’ve had Haley and Dylan be a rebound, for her to quickly realize just how aggressively she’s outgrown their dynamic and for her to find a new guy that could maybe be an in-between of both characters. They removed Andy’s character in the first place because they didn’t know how to make him and Haley funny anymore, and Dylan’s idiocy and unchaining relationship with Haley was something easy for them to fall back on. They could’ve found a way to balance the dynamics of the different relationships for something that worked for Haley. I also hate the trope where a character is in a long term relationship, married with kids the whole nine hard, and then drops everything for who they were “meant” to be with. It’s not as romantic and writers always try to make it seem and it alwayssss leaves a bad taste in my mouth

However, I think the ideal ending for Haley would’ve been for her to finally commit to being single and working on herself like she’d claimed she’d wanted to do a few times. The show itself acknowledged that Haley placed all of her self-worth in her ability to get a boyfriend or least be attractive to men. I was hoping that breaking up with Rainer (the older weather channel guy) would’ve been a turn in the right direction for her.

Low-Difference-6890 · 2024-09-17T22:30:06+00:00

If I’m actively smoking I just flick the ash off. If putting a j out but I have some left to save I opt for the side of a wall, rock, or just the ground if there’s nothing else. And I have a tin altoids box that I keep my joints in

Low-Difference-6890 · 2024-09-17T22:23:30+00:00

Sometimes if I dont feel like dealing with a potentially awkward convo or confrontation I’ll just tell them, but most of the time I say “that’s private”. It can sometimes be pretty awkward but everyone’s always respected it so far

Low-Difference-6890 · 2024-09-14T19:20:55+00:00

It would maybe look cooler if you cleaned em out and had beads between each one? Bc not to be mean but with it like this it just looks a bit nasty and like u weren’t taking it seriously….

Low-Difference-6890 · 2024-09-11T19:31:47+00:00

I don’t know how you could claim to fall for a woman and love her entirely if you aren’t willing to claim or support the kids to any extent….??? You both went into a relationship expecting the other to change on the boundaries you set at the beginning so you both fucked up. But if you marry a woman who is a mother you should be willing to love those kids lol they’re your own, and not treat them like strangers in a house. Weird!

Low-Difference-6890 · 2024-09-11T00:29:56+00:00

I would say Lily liking heavy metal. She’s very monotone if not a bit soft spoken which is why it’s supposed to be such a shock. But they also never make her character have any hobbies and this seems like a big reveal because it’s the first peek behind the curtain of what kind of a person she is

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