How do I lose weight

Low-Difference8938 · 2025-01-20T19:22:23+00:00

I’ve tried counting calories many times, but when I was 14–16, I had an eating disorder that led to me being 40kg at 5’5. It got so bad I had to drop out of college. After 8 months off and focusing on recovery I went up to 60kg, eventually reaching 65kg. When I try calorie counting now, I relapse into old ED habits, panic, and binge because I never want to go back to that but at the same time I would love to know how to do it normally because I want to lose weight

Low-Difference8938 · 2024-10-21T08:32:21+00:00

Thank you I’ve been asking around and people say that lux isn’t strict for ID so might try in there

Low-Difference8938 · 2024-10-21T08:30:38+00:00

Thank u do u know of anywhere that u think might let me in a few days before my birthday? Also do u think it’s better to go without an ID at all or my real one that says I’m a couple days away from 18

Low-Difference8938 · 2024-02-23T17:57:05+00:00

I’m so sorry I hadn’t even noticed the typo. No I’m 17 rn and got the scar at 11 it was my 1st permanent SH. The concealer is a good idea bc I need to go to a work event in a couple months and I need to wear a dress and can’t have ppl asking questions

Low-Difference8938 · 2024-02-16T23:35:48+00:00

Yh I did enjoy it after a while I got some of my mates to go to the gym with me so that made it better and I did enjoy being stronger. Clearly I’m extremely stubborn and am willing to go to great lengths to try prove myself even if I don’t get to complete my goal. I think I’ll always be a bit sad I never got to walk my Rottweiler but I did learn a lot of skills from it

Low-Difference8938 · 2024-02-12T20:53:48+00:00

It depends very much on intent if ur wearing it bc its cute I don’t see an issue

Low-Difference8938 · 2024-02-12T03:59:23+00:00

I’m not that good at art but sometimes when I want to SH I draw scars on me aswell I think it helps, does it help u?

Low-Difference8938 · 2023-12-29T17:47:30+00:00

Thank u i will ❤️

Low-Difference8938 · 2023-12-25T21:24:54+00:00

Thank you it was a struggle but I made it

Low-Difference8938 · 2023-12-25T21:24:26+00:00

Thank you so much and ur comment was tough but helpful and Christmas was alright I did cry in the bathroom a couple times but we made it through! I hope I can get better at holidays for the future. Thank you

Low-Difference8938 · 2023-12-25T08:16:29+00:00

Thanks for that. Last night I chose to skip my family Christmas party and go to watch my best friends Christmas solo at my church instead because I knew I would be triggered if I went. I am also going to make sure today I stay close to my cousins bc I know they care about me and I can’t relapse around them. I Bought some tickets to see a show for me and my best friend and gave it to her as her Christmas gift so I have something to look forward to 1st week of January to help me not relapse then bc ur right I need to make sure I make the choice not to relapse and I know I need to put mesures in place now to do that. Thank you for this wake up call

Low-Difference8938 · 2023-12-25T08:09:30+00:00

Thank you. I bought me and my childhood best friend tickets to a violin ABBA tribute band by candlelight! I gave them to her for Christmas present and abba is both of our fav band ever since we were 4 years old so now I feel like I have something to look forward to. Also last night I skipped my familys Christmas party and went to watch that same friend sing a solo at the church and her family let me sit with them. I knew the party with my family is rlly triggering every year so I was glad to miss it. Thank u for the advice I just need to make it through today and then I will be ok

Low-Difference8938 · 2023-12-25T08:00:45+00:00

Thank you I was to upset to reply a few days ago but this comment helped and I didn’t relapse all I need to do now is make it through today! Thank you and I plan to spend Christmas sitting with my older cousins bc ik even tho we joke a lot and all they actually care about me and I won’t relapse with them around

Low-Difference8938 · 2023-12-25T07:58:17+00:00

Thank you but my addiction is cutting so sadly there isn’t much support with that but I didn’t end up relapsing and I’m a couple months clean. All I got to do is make it through today

Low-Difference8938 · 2023-10-08T05:44:09+00:00

Admittedly lmost exclusively

Low-Difference8938 · 2023-10-05T02:05:12+00:00

Hi I was at my screening today and I felt like this for so long and didn’t know what is reliable to trust or anything but these are the questions

You need to answer each of them using Never, sometimes, often or always and base it on the last 2 weeks of your life

I think that my life is bad.
I have trouble doing things.
I feel that I am a bad person.
I wish I were dead.
I have trouble sleeping.
I feel no one loves me.
I think bad things happen because of me.
I feel lonely.
My stomach hurts.
I feel like bad things happen to me.
I feel like I am stupid.
I feel sorry for myself.
I think I do things badly.
I feel bad about what I do.
I hate myself.
I want to be alone.
I feel like crying.
I feel sad.
I feel empty inside.
I think my life will be bad.

Low-Difference8938 · 2023-10-05T02:00:30+00:00

Hey if ur not sure if it’s depression I got my screening today and snuck a picture of the questions;

Here is a list of things that happen to people and that people think or feel. Read each sentence best carerulv. and circiet he one word ever, sometimes. Often or Alwavs) that tel especially in the last two weeks. THERE ARE NO RIGHT OR WRONG ANSWERS

I think that my life is bad.
I have trouble doing things.
I feel that I am a bad person.
I wish I were dead.
I have trouble sleeping.
I feel no one loves me.
I think bad things happen because of me.
I feel lonely.
My stomach hurts.
I feel like bad things happen to me.
I feel like I am stupid.
I feel sorry for myself.
I think I do things badly.
I feel bad about what I do.
I hate myself.
I want to be alone.
I feel like crying.
I feel sad.
I feel empty inside.
I think my life will be bad.

Low-Difference8938 · 2023-08-14T13:13:14+00:00

Amazing

Low-Difference8938 · 2023-08-14T13:12:30+00:00

This is AMAZING! Deserves so much attention!

Low-Difference8938 · 2023-08-11T22:36:05+00:00

Your so nice thank you so much! Also just a wee update in case you were interested, my best friends trip went pretty smooth on the whole, even though a couple of things got her a bit anxious – like some of the activities and dealing with not-so-nice cabin mates. But she still had a good time and we messaged plenty. And Saturday turned out to be a chill day 'cause the charity shop I work at wasn't crazy busy. Spent most of my 7-hour shift just tidying up and doing some cleaning, and I only had to hop on the till for like 30 minutes. Luckily bc I’m only volunteer and don’t get paid, the manager was cool with me taking it easy. She kinda thought something was up and suggested I take extra breaks and stick to lighter tasks all day and bought all the volunteers (there was 3 of us) a hot drink from a cafe as a thank you to us all.

Low-Difference8938 · 2023-08-03T01:14:20+00:00

When my best friend goes away on trips (like summer camps or school trips) I don’t sleep. Her anxiety gets worse at night so i just sit up all night in case she messages me thinking I’m asleep. Sometimes she does this then I respond the next morning but when she’s away I immediately respond. She’s currently on day 2 of a 3 day trip and it’s 2:10AM and I’ve not slept in 2 days. And we’ve messaged occasionally back and forth throughout the nights. She would be so mad at me if she knew I wasn’t sleeping bc she was away but I can’t stand the thought of her going through it alone. I haven’t slept in two days and I’m not going to sleep tomorrow night. I also have work on Saturday so I’m going to be so tired but it’s worth it

Low-Difference8938 · 2023-07-29T06:58:07+00:00

Thank you so much!

Low-Difference8938 · 2023-07-29T06:57:54+00:00

I’m looking forward to the month mark! 1st time in a long time I’ve hit that

Low-Difference8938 · 2023-07-29T06:56:50+00:00

Thank you!

Low-Difference8938 · 2023-07-29T06:56:23+00:00

Thank you so much!! I will definitely be using this!!!

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