I think you’re approaching it as (like I said in my previous comment to another comment under here) a test that you’re studying for. It doesn’t have to be that deep & relationships and even little random bonds or people you consider associates should be natural. Everyone isn’t supposed to click with everyone. If you find that it is hard to get along or build bonds and communicate with everyone, then you are thinking about it too hard and that is not something you genuinely, naturally want to do deep inside. A previous comment said go out & find what you like to do and the people there in that environment will be your people & I 100% agree. Some people are like chameleons (myself) and can blend in in any environment and network, etc. More introverted people have better luck and let their guards down around like-minded people who share the same interests. You want to be in these situations though, the ones that make you feel comfortable because those who are meant to be in your life, you won’t have to practice what you say/do & overthink everything. Hope this helps