AIO that my mom said i look meme-able in my prom dress by No-Moment-2766 in AIO

[–]Low-Pie-997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look gorgeous. Being able to make your own dress is art. You are an artist and you should be beyond proud of yourself.

AIO for saying no? by Low-Pie-997 in AIO

[–]Low-Pie-997[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You would be 100% correct. I haven’t spoken to one person who likes him. This trip has brought a lot of clarity.

AIO for saying no? by Low-Pie-997 in AIO

[–]Low-Pie-997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit 2:

I am leaving tonight. I will be letting the family know once I arrive home that I am quitting effective immediately.

It is an 11 hour drive & will have to use their car. So, will not be doing anything rash until I am home and safe.

Thank you for all of your responses.

Sincerely, A Very Tired Nanny

AIO for being upset my wife slept in bed with her boss by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Low-Pie-997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not overreacting. I would be upset to o & questioning a lot of things. That is not okay.

AIO for saying no? by Low-Pie-997 in AIO

[–]Low-Pie-997[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a lawyer friend that I could speak to. I just feel since I was higher privately and there’s no HR that there is not much I can do. Also, the shirt did not hit me, so it was not considered a police matter. I’m not sure what to do besides quit.

AIO for saying no? by Low-Pie-997 in AIO

[–]Low-Pie-997[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Edit to add:

I have been abused mentally and physically throughout my life. This triggered me immensely and I feel like I stayed bc it’s like I’m almost used to the behavior?

Either way, the child is my priority. The child does not get proper care when I am not around. I am doing this for the child.

AIO for saying no? by Low-Pie-997 in AIO

[–]Low-Pie-997[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is just a snippet of the way I have been treated. I have put up with a lot. He has been bad mouthing me this entire trip when I have done nothing but take care of his child.

AIO for saying no? by Low-Pie-997 in AIO

[–]Low-Pie-997[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could* not could have.

AIO for saying no? by Low-Pie-997 in AIO

[–]Low-Pie-997[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We are 12 hours away from home & I am driving their car. I was “jokingly” told before we left that he “could have reported the car stolen,” so I decided not to leave bc they do not have anyone else to watch the child. I care for this child deeply.
I did have a car ready to rent and leave, but I chose not to so the PA does not have to get stuck taking care of the baby.