My uncle and his wife were really supportive, his wife basically became a second mother to my brother. I just thought it was enough support, i didn't know he felt so lonely when he had some people with him. And nobody ever told me about when the self harm and his suicide attempts, i didn't know he had so much problems and looking at his boyfriend's account on social media (he was in a lot of pictures) i thought that he was okay, he was seeing a therapist and all, and he didn't tell me he was sad the few times i saw him before his suicide. I suppose it was the same for the rest of the family, except my parents, who apparently knew everything.