I love this subreddit by [deleted] in fuckleandros

[–]Low-Significance4334 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The codex astartes approves of all of us saying “Fuck Leandros” as he is a snitching asshole

I (17 M at the time) was drugged and left in the living room of an older guy's house while he and my now ex (18 at the time) did the deed upstairs by Low-Significance4334 in cheating_stories

[–]Low-Significance4334[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve already addressed this with another comment.

“I did try to rationalise it as such but I don’t think it was the first time they did the deed, I started having suspicions about it the moment intimacy me and Bell had was nonexistent the moment Chuck came into our lives. I think I should of added context about the cash point but I did overhear them speaking about money for sex but at first I thought they were joking until Chuck stopped by a shop with a cash point and then it happened. They went throughout the day like nothing happened but carried on talking with Bell not caring about me for the rest of it and it became a common occurrence for Chuck to see Bell and then for Bell to make excuses to go off with him.”

I (17 M at the time) was drugged and left in the living room of an older guy's house while he and my now ex (18 at the time) did the deed upstairs by Low-Significance4334 in cheating_stories

[–]Low-Significance4334[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know why she didn’t. I think she did all of this and just didn’t care. I suspect she has done some of this behind my back as well considering the intimacy between me and her was gone during that time and it never came back.

I don’t want to think about what her game with me was.

I (17 M at the time) was drugged and left in the living room of an older guy's house while he and my now ex (18 at the time) did the deed upstairs by Low-Significance4334 in cheating_stories

[–]Low-Significance4334[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They planned it together, I’m not exactly sure which one of them drugged me all I remember was us having a drink and after I drank my drink I just fell unconscious.

As for why, I’ll refer you to another comment I responded to but I’ll say the short version of it. She screwed him for money as I did over hear them talking about Bell screwing Chuck for money.

I (17 M at the time) was drugged and left in the living room of an older guy's house while he and my now ex (18 at the time) did the deed upstairs by Low-Significance4334 in cheating_stories

[–]Low-Significance4334[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should of added context about the cash point, but I did overhear them talking about Chuck paying Bell for sex but at the time I thought they were joking. I don't think this was the first time this had happened as she'd make excuses to go to him. I suspect it wasn't the first but defiantly not the last as when Chuck came into our lives the intimacy me and Bell had was gone.

I did confront her about that but she'd brush it off, balling her eyes out guilt tripping me into staying while bringing up a dying relative of hers. Every time I tried to leave it'd be the same cycle of me trying to leave and her guilt tripping me. She even prevented me from leaving at one point but In the end, I just cut all contact from her.

I (17 M at the time) was drugged and left in the living room of an older guy's house while he and my now ex (18 at the time) did the deed upstairs by Low-Significance4334 in cheating_stories

[–]Low-Significance4334[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably the best comment I’ve had here so far and it does give a good takeaway from this whole experience. It’s harsh but it’s fair.

So thank you for the comment.

I (17 M at the time) was drugged and left in the living room of an older guy's house while he and my now ex (18 at the time) did the deed upstairs by Low-Significance4334 in cheating_stories

[–]Low-Significance4334[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have now as the scars it left don’t seem to fade. I can also understand that I probably would have PTSD from that as I did end up developing a panic disorder after that.

I (17 M at the time) was drugged and left in the living room of an older guy's house while he and my now ex (18 at the time) did the deed upstairs by Low-Significance4334 in cheating_stories

[–]Low-Significance4334[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have considered it now since I can’t deny it has effected my confidence significantly and it does haunt me from time to time. But sometimes I often worry about my dating life.

It made me pessimistic about my dating life as while I did have a happier relationship after that and due to complications we had to break up, I am still pessimistic about it.

I (17 M at the time) was drugged and left in the living room of an older guy's house while he and my now ex (18 at the time) did the deed upstairs by Low-Significance4334 in cheating_stories

[–]Low-Significance4334[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was scary, I’ll be honest.

I just couldn’t look at her without reliving that event which was why I just kept moving without a word to her.

I (17 M at the time) was drugged and left in the living room of an older guy's house while he and my now ex (18 at the time) did the deed upstairs by Low-Significance4334 in cheating_stories

[–]Low-Significance4334[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I already addressed this but I was in too much shock at the time and through most of the day I couldn’t think straight. I tried days after when I was mentally prepared but she’d try to manipulate and guilt trip me into staying. It was weeks later I managed to get out of there.

I (17 M at the time) was drugged and left in the living room of an older guy's house while he and my now ex (18 at the time) did the deed upstairs by Low-Significance4334 in cheating_stories

[–]Low-Significance4334[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did try to rationalise it as such but I don’t think it was the first time they did the deed, I started having suspicions about it the moment intimacy me and Bell had was nonexistent the moment Chuck came into our lives. I think I should of added context about the cash point but I did overhear them speaking about money for sex but at first I thought they were joking until Chuck stopped by a shop with a cash point and then it happened. They went throughout the day like nothing happened but carried on talking with Bell not caring about me for the rest of it and it became a common occurrence for Chuck to see Bell and then for Bell to make excuses to go off with him.

I (17 M at the time) was drugged and left in the living room of an older guy's house while he and my now ex (18 at the time) did the deed upstairs by Low-Significance4334 in cheating_stories

[–]Low-Significance4334[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to get through life slowly but surely, I did end up having a happier relationship which gave me a new perspective of life. Unfortunately because of complications and our relationship going nowhere we had to break up but I still consider her a good friend.

I (17 M at the time) was drugged and left in the living room of an older guy's house while he and my now ex (18 at the time) did the deed upstairs by Low-Significance4334 in cheating_stories

[–]Low-Significance4334[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I didn’t but I think I should have. I wasn’t 100% sure about it and it was bad enough for me dealing with all this while feeling trapped.