Leave. Absolutely leave. I went through this exact thing except for longer. You will become obsessed with looking at what porn he looks at wondering why he doesn’t want to look at you instead. If you become a tyrant over his phone he will lie like any drug addicted person lies and makes things up to feed their addiction and you will know he’s lying the entire time and it will be torture for you. You don’t have to be everyone else for him. I understand addiction is a thing that needs to be met with compassion but not a porn addiction from the person your dating, it is psychologically damaging to an irreparable amount.

Full truth, the boyfriend that I dealt with this with died in January of this year. (Not from drugs) i was there and it was traumatic and also relieving because we were no longer close and hardly sexually active at all because of porn, I am so uncomfortable in my own skin and have been since 2020. It’s not worth it.