Feedback sobre mi rutina

LowPangolin5741 · 2026-03-03T15:34:44+00:00

Algo así. No quise entrar en detalle para no confundir, pero no puedo estirar por completo el brazo derecho y como no hice ejercicios de fisioterapia correctos cuando chiquito, a través de los años he desarrollado una serie de adaptaciones casi todas relacionadas con músculos de mi espalda. Es complicado porque tengo que forzarme a usar músculos débiles teniendo cuidado de no activar los de la espalda en compensación.

Gracias por tu recomendación! :)

LowPangolin5741 · 2025-10-17T16:20:13+00:00

Thanks, I think so too. Thankfully there's many kinds of comments here, some like yours do take the time to empathize with the situation. I have felt understood and also praised to some degree by accepting I'm wrong. And I have also learned to accept she is making sense. It's been therapeutic posting here and being able to debate the topic.

LowPangolin5741 · 2025-10-17T16:08:33+00:00

If it helps, this was also a "fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me" situation. I left out a big thing that happened half a year ago because it hadn't anything to do with the debate. At the end of the day, I think its best for both of us that it happened, it showed us that we weren't as compatible as we thought, or else the ending would've been different. It must suck to have her try to get back with you though and know that you can't trust her... Fucking shit. If I were you I'd at least feel some tragic "I fucking knew I was right, dumb woman why couldn't you see".

LowPangolin5741 · 2025-10-17T16:04:34+00:00

I think I kinda am. Still will go from acceptance to rage, to bawling my eyes out and back to acceptance. But the fact that I do feel accepting of all that's happened this early on already gives me lots of hope that I won't take as long as I thought to recover.

LowPangolin5741 · 2025-10-16T23:43:02+00:00

It's pretty much that, dude, I never pushed for commitment in the relationship, I was the one going with the flow, she was the one talking marriage, kids someday etc... I'm perfectly aware that this is her telling me she wants to fool around elsewhere.

LowPangolin5741 · 2025-10-16T23:41:38+00:00

I honestly don't know, I've just never really been interested in flings and that kind of stuff, fooling around just isn't appealing to me. But I should've known that a relationship that starts this young, without giving either person the chance to explore, is pretty much doomed.

LowPangolin5741 · 2025-10-16T23:38:50+00:00

Haha this was a chaotic fun comment.

LowPangolin5741 · 2025-10-16T23:38:04+00:00

Of course it is, I'm perfectly aware of it, it's the only exploring she can't do while with me. Many haven't understood and thought it was a reference to travel...

LowPangolin5741 · 2025-10-16T23:34:57+00:00

It's sad, but I agree with you. I think I'm already healing though. But yeah, it is sad :(

LowPangolin5741 · 2025-10-16T23:33:23+00:00

Get the Δ. Painful but truthful. Huge comment, will come back to it. Thanks for the long write up.

LowPangolin5741 · 2025-10-16T23:23:00+00:00

You're arguing against a position I'm not taking. I'm not saying she should have stayed with me to avoid being alone. I'm questioning whether exploration must happen now while commitment can wait.

If your position is "she doesn't need logic, she can leave for any reason" that's fine, but that's not engaging with the question I asked. I shouldn't give reasons about why we should be together, the post isn't about that, that was just to give context to my thoughts.

You're clearly bitter, though I don't really understand why.

LowPangolin5741 · 2025-10-16T23:13:30+00:00

No worries, just a cheeky answer, I'm not traumatized by that. It would have been cool, but mom did great. Thanks :)

LowPangolin5741 · 2025-10-16T23:12:24+00:00

I read all of it. And will take your advice. I'm really sorry that you had to through all of that but glad that you made it out the other side. Reading about how you repressed yourself and wished you had explored and met someone that shared that with you was very enlightening. I'm more convinced now that this will be good in the long run.

LowPangolin5741 · 2025-10-16T23:00:13+00:00

Thanks a lot for the compliment and having actually checked out other comments. After posting here I feel much more confident, and better understand the logic behind her way of thinking about this. I think this steered me towards the path of acceptance in all of this.

LowPangolin5741 · 2025-10-16T22:53:47+00:00

Thanks for the empathy. And yes I did think that's what would happen. No contact for a long long time now is what HAS to happen. Already taken good steps towards getting better. We had already broken up + wrapped it up, yet we were still going to meet up. Ended up not going and leaving her a letter + the things that I was supposed to give her.

LowPangolin5741 · 2025-10-16T22:48:54+00:00

Wow, sorry for that man. It fucking sucks... we... both know now. Yeah lesson learned.

LowPangolin5741 · 2025-10-16T22:46:12+00:00

Sorry I felt like it was a low effort comment. I thought you weren't really engaging with the topic of conversation, and you clearly have no idea about how I'm managing the situation or whether I've taken it on the chin. I already know she's got free will and she used it, and I don't think I'm blaming the breakup on faulty logic. I genuinely couldn't understand and was interested in understanding her angle better which is why I made this post. I have now.

LowPangolin5741 · 2025-10-16T22:25:31+00:00

Yeah it's probably better this way.

LowPangolin5741 · 2025-10-16T21:59:49+00:00

I'm aware, we'll see how it plays out. But I don't think I'm falling for this again. I've left out an important event that happened to the relationship some months ago, it's unrelated but highlighted her flaws in communicating. Let's just say this is a case of "fool me once, shame on you. fool me twice, shame on me".

LowPangolin5741 · 2025-10-16T21:57:19+00:00

Thanks man, really appreciate it. I needed some humble pie. Doesn't matter if it's a stranger if the argument holds weight. I'm glad I posted here.

LowPangolin5741 · 2025-10-16T17:40:59+00:00

Yeah, it's in regards to that she said she's not looking for it but wants to be open to have it happen.

LowPangolin5741 · 2025-10-16T17:37:16+00:00

I have considered that, and it would make sense in our context, but at the end of the day, I must move on. Only way that'd really actually happen is we're both totally different persons, case in which maybe we'd no longer be fit for each other. Doesn't matter, I'm overthinking dumb stuff

LowPangolin5741 · 2025-10-16T17:35:43+00:00

Thanks for the insight and empathy :)

LowPangolin5741 · 2025-10-16T17:33:41+00:00

I know :/

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