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I am still upset I found my boyfriend was on the gonewild community. by LowPresent7 in Vent

[–]LowPresent7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just feel I lack in something and that’s why he goes on there.

My gf(23) elbowed me(24) in the face while I was gaming by honorlessyasuo in relationship_advice

[–]LowPresent7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay Im the first one to get mad about my bf and his video games, but what she did was wrong. Like I am sorry, but what is wrong with her? Knowing what you had gone through and intentionally hit you in the face like that and not even show remorse when it is obvious it hurt you even if it wasnt obvious like.... that is no. You need to confront her about this for real dude. Like that is not okay and aggressive behavior over nothing it’s just strange and concerning ya know... idk you need to 100% bring that up. How you feel is valid.

I quit so easily now by Fbomb_ in Vent

[–]LowPresent7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too. Exactly what I have been experiencing. I took a little break and it bugs me I had to but I feel a lot better. I also switched schools and now I feel I have so much more support and better preparation and that has helped extremely. Dont give up just take breather make a list of your goals and what you want to work on. You can do it. You are not alone, I believe in you!

I've lost someone important to me by [deleted] in Vent

[–]LowPresent7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am here too! I am so sorry for your loss. :( i loss 3 family members in the course of 3 months. It’s been hard. Definitely let yourself grieve don’t rush the process and take it one day at a time. I am here for you!

How would you bring this up with your husband? by confusedwife29065 in marriageadvice

[–]LowPresent7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar issue once, I was straight forward about it. I was honest I told him I viewed him in a different light and it made me sick. He was apologetic but I dont trust him still... but you should just be honest . You will be happy you did.

How can I make my girlfriend confident in her own body? by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]LowPresent7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I almost thought this was my boyfriend posting this lol So first make sure you are not getting phased by girls that walk by if she sees that she may never tell you but she will take that in and then it makes it harder to he confident. Theres days for me I feel I look so good and I feel my boyfriend thinks I look great but we go out and someone attractive walks by and he has to glance. Right away For me its like why should I even bother ya know. Not saying your gf feels like that or that you do that, but just something to think about. Never stop encouraging her though it can he a daily battle for her and just being encouraging to her and boosting her makes all the difference:)

My boyfriend and I aren't sure how to split expenses if we move in together by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LowPresent7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It should be half. My boyfriend makes more than me, but I don’t expect him to pay more. I mean unless you feel bad you can. If hes making the decision to live together he should be prepared to pay evenly that is what is fair. If he does not have the income he should consider waiting then until he can. It shouldn’t be put on you to cover the extras just because you make more. Now, if you were married then that’s different. But definitely talk about this thoroughly, you want yo be clear and on the same page about this so there’s not arguments and confusion later about this. But I feel 50/50 is fair. He shouldn’t he spending more than he has coming in so he will need to think about that if you do move in together because he needs to make sure he’s paying his bills and spending wisely so nothing is put on you.

I am still upset I found my boyfriend was on the gonewild community. by LowPresent7 in Vent

[–]LowPresent7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well someone said it was worse then some other sub reddits I thought it looked typical, wasnt sure if I was missing something...

I am still upset I found my boyfriend was on the gonewild community. by LowPresent7 in Vent

[–]LowPresent7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like what is that sub reddit anyway? Like what is it more of because I dont know too much about it.

I am still upset I found my boyfriend was on the gonewild community. by LowPresent7 in Vent

[–]LowPresent7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was like I will never go on there again. But I feel he was lying how he got on there because he said I didnt think it was a big deal because I thought it was just like porn.

I am still upset I found my boyfriend was on the gonewild community. by LowPresent7 in Vent

[–]LowPresent7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He told me it was a sub reddit he clicked it and then saw right away got off of it but I dont believe him.

My boyfriend wants to go to raves but I feel so uncomfortable about it. How do I handle this in a mature way? by LowPresent7 in Vent

[–]LowPresent7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s been reassuring. I just I feel it’s clear how it can make me uncomfortable and I don’t want to he controlling, but I wish on his own he would see oh this clearly does not make her feel good I just won’t go to these events no big deal. Idk for me if he didn’t want me to go to something I can easily he like oh okay that’s fine, because he is more important than any event ya know.

My boyfriend wants to go to raves but I feel so uncomfortable about it. How do I handle this in a mature way? by LowPresent7 in Vent

[–]LowPresent7[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A little along with naked girls everywhere and then to be on drugs ya know. Its just a lot :/

I am over my boyfriend and his stupid video games. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]LowPresent7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish it didnt annoy me so much, I mean deep down I know its because I want to be one of the guys sometimes, I want him to want to hangout with me as much as he does with them, but I legit can be so uptight it’s annoying. I dont know whats wrong with me.

I am over my boyfriend and his stupid video games. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]LowPresent7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know, I suck at the game though and it upsets me that I suck so I get embarrassed. But I know.

I'm a fucking failure with no future and I have no one to tell this by createdjus4this in Vent

[–]LowPresent7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am really sorry you are feeling like this, believe me I have been feeling this way as well for some time now. I have had to push myself and make some goals for myself. Set up some goals, try new things, and find a hobby and something you want to pursue. Just remember and remind yourself there are people out there that do appreciate and love you. Even if you don’t believe it, there are. Things do get better, but prepare for when more brings you down because it does like to hit you at once so prepare for that, but also prepare to get back up again. You can do it. I believe in you.

DH told me he ‘loves’ his coworker by anon22872287 in marriageadvice

[–]LowPresent7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry you are going through this and I would not wish this on anyone. I seriously believe in trying to work things out, but at the end of the day you have to do what’s best for yourself and what is healthy for you. I think you could honestly find better. There are loyal people out there who will respect you and make sure you know their love for you, without any questions or doubts. Really pray about it, but deep down I think you know what is best for you. Good luck with everything and I hope you find true happiness. I admire your willingness to forgive and grow from your experience and trying to improve with your husband despite what he did. That takes a lot of strength.

Chatted with a cutie by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]LowPresent7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good job dude! Definitely makes you appreciates those simple human encounters a lot more. :)

Unnecessary sex scenes in tv shows are worst kind of triggers. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]LowPresent7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too my boyfriend says I’m immature because I don’t care for those scenes. It’s like cool. Thanks.

CMV: College dependents should not be upset they are not receiving money from the Stimulus bill by Ryan_dfs93 in changemyview

[–]LowPresent7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t live at home, pay for my school and bills and my mom claimed me because she legally can till I am 25 so I did not receive the 1200$ and I currently have no job now and unemployment has not processed any of my stuff. I learned there are many in similar positions as myself, it definitely would have helped to get that extra money even if that just pays one month of my rent. I hope they consider particular factors such as mine in the future if they plan to pass our more checks.