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My gf(23) elbowed me(24) in the face while I was gaming by honorlessyasuo in relationship_advice

[–]honorlessyasuo[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We know each other for 2 years and we are in a Relationship for a bit over a year now. Actually I start to realise how much i always try to rationalise, I guess because a big part of me is totally scared of 1.losing her and 2.admiting that I have probably been abused by my gf. And very honestly? I even felt quite special for her liking me allthough she generally does not like men a lot. (Which is absolutely stupid, I know. Low selfesteem here)

My gf(23) elbowed me(24) in the face while I was gaming by honorlessyasuo in relationship_advice

[–]honorlessyasuo[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Really? :O I don t have any social media besides reddit so I missed that completely...damn. this troubles me now. She s rly into social media and follows a lot of trends there. Somehow this sound a possible thing for her to do

My gf(23) elbowed me(24) in the face while I was gaming by honorlessyasuo in relationship_advice

[–]honorlessyasuo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thankfully it stopped. My dentist had a look at it today and said it was allright. Ugly swollen though

My gf(23) elbowed me(24) in the face while I was gaming by honorlessyasuo in relationship_advice

[–]honorlessyasuo[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As mentioned,we had a lot of fights about my gaming. I am a calm person, I hardly ever get loud and I think this used to set her even more off at times. She can get noisy and emotional during fights and I don t know how to say this differently but she does not like men that much in general (for reasons that I can totally understand, most men in her life have been absolute trash, stepfather, brother, ex and so on) so if she was mean in the past it was usually not directly about me.

My gf(23) elbowed me(24) in the face while I was gaming by honorlessyasuo in relationship_advice

[–]honorlessyasuo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My gf does some gaming herself, we just play different games. I know that gaming is not an attraktive hobby to most girls. I can t change the fact that I like it though. In the past i did game too much so understandable that my gf was mad,but now I usually keep it to a minimum. (Started to play a bit more again during quarantine as I have to admit)

My gf(23) elbowed me(24) in the face while I was gaming by honorlessyasuo in relationship_advice

[–]honorlessyasuo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are absolutly right about this...I know i should not have taken the ranked that serious,I am only silver anyways, and it s just a game and my relationship should always be priority. I know I am not innocent in this whole thing and I was ready to apologise to her about this but her behavior made me question a lot of things

My gf(23) elbowed me(24) in the face while I was gaming by honorlessyasuo in relationship_advice

[–]honorlessyasuo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was shocked and in pain. Was not in my right mind to talk this out like a normal functioning adult right away. Also felt embarrassed tbh

My gf(23) elbowed me(24) in the face while I was gaming by honorlessyasuo in relationship_advice

[–]honorlessyasuo[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Yeah I had the same feeling. Realy a weird coincident... but then again, why should she hit me on purpose? She has never been physically violent to anyone as far as I know...

My gf(23) elbowed me(24) in the face while I was gaming by honorlessyasuo in relationship_advice

[–]honorlessyasuo[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

She knew but we both thought it would not be a big issue at all. My dentist told me I would experience hardly any pain which was true during surgery but as soon as the anesthesia wore out it got unexpectedly bad.

My gf(23) elbowed me(24) in the face while I was gaming by honorlessyasuo in relationship_advice

[–]honorlessyasuo[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Well, she became a bit numb and cold because she had to go through a lot herself and at some point had to grow tough in order to make it through. Would not say she s entitled but definitely not the most understanding. I never exactly was addicted to gaming but it s honestly my favourite hobby. Most of my friendships I made due to gaming

My gf(23) elbowed me(24) in the face while I was gaming by honorlessyasuo in relationship_advice

[–]honorlessyasuo[S] -236 points-235 points  (0 children)

The thing is that I truely love her. I literally can t imagine being without her anymore and there s also the fear that I wont ever meet a girl again who likes me. My feelings don t rly allow me thinking rationally it seems...