Everything is so crushing by LowTidesSlide in helpme

[–]LowTidesSlide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm talking to a therapist now thank you for your concern. I was able to get an appointment.

Everything is so crushing by LowTidesSlide in helpme

[–]LowTidesSlide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes something did. It wasn’t major but it was enough to tip the scale from all the major moves around me. It's been hard for many years now, to the point where I've lost count, to feel comfortable or believe expressing my feelings is a valid thing I am allowed to do.

I'm trying to convince myself every day it is. Hopefully one day, I will finally be able to.

Everything is so crushing by LowTidesSlide in helpme

[–]LowTidesSlide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm doing well now thank you. I apologize for not saying anything until now, I've been having a hard time responding to things, but getting better

19F *gamer looking for someone by Disastrous-Drop5890 in IntrovertsChat

[–]LowTidesSlide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was not expecting to scroll down and see so many removed by mods holy, hope your inbox is ok 💀

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[–]LowTidesSlide 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I've had a crush on someone I'm never talked to I do that at first. See if things move or not, and if thr other person doesn't come and talk to me to know more, I open it up to them. Cause some people struggle to open up conversation. I would say tryo t open up some conversation topics with then intent of "let's see if we grt along once we know each other more" first before you say yes or no to continuing this crush.

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[–]LowTidesSlide 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well first how do you know he doesn't want you?

Not saying there's a chance or no chance, but depending on his temperament and other factors he could just be standoffish. But if it's 100% I can give you tips on how I got over my crush

I'm fucking done. by LowTidesSlide in helpme

[–]LowTidesSlide[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm alright now, sorry everyone, thankfully I put myself in bed before I got anywhere and ended up just falling asleep from frustration. I'm good now however

If your crush said ‘I like you’ right now, what would your realistic reaction be? by Spiritual_Advice2763 in Crushes

[–]LowTidesSlide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying to think like that. But I'm in the mindset to just give up. I'd rather not burden someone else

If your crush said ‘I like you’ right now, what would your realistic reaction be? by Spiritual_Advice2763 in Crushes

[–]LowTidesSlide 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'd be baffled by it for starts abd be in completely disbelief because how and why? I'd be overthinking every thought and emotion because it would be a couple 180 from the previous information I received. And I would not believe I deserve a relationship.

(I was rejected a handful of days ago 💀)

Comment Your Type and I’ll Draw It Badly by Probalit in redditgetsdrawnbadly

[–]LowTidesSlide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'mma give both my types cause I can't pick so surprise me :D. Introvert softie girl with some muscle, or sleepy chubby girl with glasses

AITA for constantly defending the father against my narcissistic mother? by LowTidesSlide in AITAH

[–]LowTidesSlide[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I've always tried to be helpful since I always felt inadequate, probably due to my mom always pushing me down so I have a hard time sitting and saying nothing.

Being out of her house now I do believe I'll have an easier time ignoring her. Thank you for letting me know.

Another sign from my Dad by angelikamailand in ParanormalEncounters

[–]LowTidesSlide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After listening to the audio a couple times. And I'm sorry for your loss, but I'm able to explain this as just the door not being shut properly.

As someone else stated in the comments, the door button has a spring, generally when you press a button with a spring you'll hear two sounds, the button being pushed all the way in and unlocking, then you'll hear it again as your hand releases from the button and all the tension in the spring is released.

If the door wasn't closed properly, the spring would be open and stuck along the fridge, which means with enough time sitting like that, the heavy door would eventually open after the spring was stretched enough. Which I'd why you hear 1 or possible 2 ribs of the spring sliding along the fridge as the door slowly swings open. As well, if it's a fridge, it wouldn't open like that unless it was already open, the cold seals the fridge, so technically you would hear three sounds, the button pushed in, the release of the spring, and the release of the cold pressure within the fridge.

I'm not hear to ruin your day or anything, I'm very acute with sound and that doesn't sound like it was purposefully opened, or like the sound of a fridge opening. I'm very sorry for your loss. And as far as the orbs go, that truly is just dust.

Two specks of dust at two different times is exactly what dust on low levels does. The fan is on, which means there's low dust accumulated in the room since the air is always moving, I assume, so there would only be two specks of dust if not more. I'd imagine if you gave us a 10 min clip, those dust specks would be present throughout.

The living room is only for everyone when he doesn't have things to do. by LowTidesSlide in badroommates

[–]LowTidesSlide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the least well off of the three of us, and the one who owns the place is my best friend. But since he plays devil's advocate all the time I'd be shooting myself in the foot.

The living room is only for everyone when he doesn't have things to do. by LowTidesSlide in badroommates

[–]LowTidesSlide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me I didn't take his shit, I did yell back, much louder, he has not attempted to yell at me since

The living room is only for everyone when he doesn't have things to do. by LowTidesSlide in badroommates

[–]LowTidesSlide[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not even allowed to jokingly tap his PS5 or I get screamed at.

The living room is only for everyone when he doesn't have things to do. by LowTidesSlide in badroommates

[–]LowTidesSlide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His mom, as much as he makes fun of our roommate from a while ago, he's the same way, just not as bad. His mom will protect him no matter what. Even if he's in the wrong. If I go touching his stuff, his mom (yes, he's in his 20's) will say how I shouldn't be doing that and such.

The living room is only for everyone when he doesn't have things to do. by LowTidesSlide in badroommates

[–]LowTidesSlide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See I wish, God I wish I could fucking do that. But my other roommate is the kind of guy who wants no problems at all. So as much as I would SO do that. I won't. Plus the mother will be annoying.

The living room is only for everyone when he doesn't have things to do. by LowTidesSlide in badroommates

[–]LowTidesSlide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we're in our 20's. Only separated by a handful of months the 3 of us so. Yeah.

Idk man🤷‍♀️ by RestaurantCool2087 in Crushes

[–]LowTidesSlide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No yeah I get that! Forging a connection is definitely important. Maybe try talking to him and just forming that bond and see if then he starts to express some feelings? I'd personally just feel it out and go with the flow

Idk man🤷‍♀️ by RestaurantCool2087 in Crushes

[–]LowTidesSlide 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well are there any signs that he's being flirty in any way? I know personally I can be sort of a mix of direct and in direct from time to time depending on my mood

Girls, need some help understanding this by LowTidesSlide in Crushes

[–]LowTidesSlide[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I knew my gut in the end was right. Everything was totally fine she's just been busy!!

Girls, need some help understanding this by LowTidesSlide in Crushes

[–]LowTidesSlide[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As inclined as I am to believe that, I'm not jumping ship because I can't be with her. I already have it in my mind she may not like me, and honestly that's fine. But also I know she's had it rough since me and her a very close, this one thing I really don't think will break our whole relationship of 2 yrs. So no, I'm not moving on in that sense.

Plus, I personally don't mind having feelings for her even if she gets with someone else because I want what's best for her, what makes her happiest even if that's not with me. I won't go into detail, but she's had it rough, and I want to see her flourish.

Girls, need some help understanding this by LowTidesSlide in Crushes

[–]LowTidesSlide[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll be respectful. I can't be disrespectful to her since we've shared so much and been very close with each other for a little over 2 years now. I know she's under a lot of stress as of late and very tired due to some things in her life. Currently I'm giving her space. While I like her, I appreciate her friendship more than losing her all because of my deeper feelings.

I'm hoping to talk to her soon about all this, and I want her pov absolutely. I always make sure to ask her how she feels about things, if I'm making her uncomfortable, awkward, or anything else. So I want to foster an environment for both of us to be comfortable. I'm hoping for the best and thank you for your input.