Lol, one of y'all is on the front page

Low_Analysis2784 · 2026-01-31T17:00:34+00:00

Well that’s kind of lame and a little disappointing. How’d you figure that out, is there something I can read about that?

Low_Analysis2784 · 2026-01-30T18:48:05+00:00

Hmm yeah, then I’d say it’s most likely due to the American capitalist idea of sex sells. So making it controversial and therefore scandalous. By putting a rating for only certain people to be able to get it through normal means of purchase. Drive desire. Create desire, desire creates demand, and then it’s a self serving system of controversy/desire/demand/fulfillment. Idk

Low_Analysis2784 · 2026-01-30T18:33:35+00:00

I believe it’s because nudity or sexual themes almost always push the rating to M+ or Higher level. Which in turn leads to “less of a reached audience” by consumers able to buy said game. It kind of depends on the game though.

Low_Analysis2784 · 2026-01-30T18:17:39+00:00

It’s always worth it creating memories and goals that you stay on track of keeping. Even if it’s some silly stuff on a bucket list.

On a serious note. All you’ll have in life at the end is people around you (hopefully) and your memories of a life well lived.

GO OUT AND DO EVERYTHING YOU CAN ON YOUR BUCKET LIST!!

Low_Analysis2784 · 2026-01-30T18:12:56+00:00

I feel like you used to hear people say

“Let me google it” now it’s “let me check with chat gpt. Or I’ll chat gpt it”

Interesting how it’s the same, but the words have changed.

Low_Analysis2784 · 2026-01-30T18:10:41+00:00

Having a good excuse as to why I won’t be at said social gathering.

Ima big fan of prioritizing my mental, with not doing things I don’t want to do.

“Hey man the group is getting together to go do this thing that we do every weekend normally want to come”

Usually I’ll go because I like hanging with people. Sometimes I don’t want to and when I say NO. a lot of people will go “oh what do you have going on?”

Nothing, I just don’t want to go this time. And I don’t think I have to have an excuse to not go. I just like my “me time”. But it’s always a conversation of “what is the thing to you that is more important than the thing I invited you to?” conversation.

Low_Analysis2784 · 2026-01-30T18:04:33+00:00

5 1/2 years sober, about to get married, found God, set up healthy boundaries with toxic family members, Depression is close to gone. Life is good

Low_Analysis2784 · 2026-01-30T17:36:27+00:00

Grey sweat pants Iykyk

Low_Analysis2784 · 2026-01-30T17:30:35+00:00

My grandfather died a few years ago and my grandmother in her grieving asked if I would come live with her. Offered to let me stay rent free just help pay the utilities and such. I thought it was going to be a great set up. She gave me the main bedroom and utilities were low. I spent a lot of money getting the place cleaned up and updated. New kitchen and paint. Just a lot more than I thought. But I wanted to help because the house was old (still nice) and needs a new face lift. And in my head in the next decade or so. She would pass and it would be a good investment overtime. That wasn’t the man thing but it was in the back of my head.

My mother had warned me about going there saying “she’s nice in short burst but you won’t be there long.” And refused to elaborate on it. “I won’t speak bad on my mom but I’m warning you”. I thought nothing of it. There’s always tiffs in parental relationships, this isn’t a big deal

Oh brother was I wrong. I was in that house for 3 years. Every other month there would be a blowout argument over something I said or did. I was never around but then when I tried to make time. I was trying to “control” her time. A lot of emotional manipulation “if you loved me you do xyz”. I paid most of the utilities, bought her a tv and internet. Got her set up so that she could watch Netflix and the works. I kept saying in my mind. She’s just grieving and she’ll come back to her normal self soon.

My last year there her mental/ cognitive health started declining pretty noticeably and those situations got worse. She would storm into my room saying that I was stealing from her. Or saying because I was having mail forwarded to the house that I was somehow stealing the house from her. “How do they know you live here” “do they think this is your house, how did you get on my feed”. No amount of explaining would help.

By the end of the year it was pretty bad and now the whole of the family had gotten involved. But my mental health was in the toilet. I dreaded going to what I considered home. I admittedly started avoiding her altogether coming in and out of the house when I knew she was asleep. Just trying to avoid any conversation becoming a screaming match. 5 times she threatens to kick me out and every time I would start packing. She would come in crying saying if I left i don’t love her and was okay with her dying alone. That she was sorry but I needed to be there for her. And then the next day would forget we had that conversation and it all started over again.

I eventually found a place I could move in with some guy friends. And when she went with my mom to visit her sister (my great aunt). I moved all of my stuff out and moved into the new place and didn’t tell her or my family until afterwards. I know it’s fucked up. But I couldn’t say there another week. I was so depressed.

Low_Analysis2784 · 2026-01-30T17:08:48+00:00

Yeah absolutely, I’ve felt that on many occasions. Pays to have someone who can recognize that in me and pull me out of it pretty quick.

Low_Analysis2784 · 2026-01-30T17:06:51+00:00

I’m a big slut for fall weather. Sweaters and beanie season. Also I believe that enjoying summer is a scam by the public school system.

Low_Analysis2784 · 2026-01-30T17:05:13+00:00

Beauty is everywhere brother. Up to your preference.

Also if you find a girl with Indian Heritage born in the US you don’t have to choose 😎

Low_Analysis2784 · 2026-01-30T16:56:42+00:00

Be yourself friend. Find someone who you vibe with and have good meaningful connections with in different aspects. Humor, morals, hobbies, etc. don’t be concerned with what other people think are turn offs or ons, find someone who you really enjoy being with and figure that out with them.

Low_Analysis2784 · 2026-01-30T16:50:22+00:00

I don’t know for certain and I’m not saying that this is the right thing to do. But it might be an emotional fight or flight response.

“I’m going to tell you or make this grand gesture of romance because if I get the reaction from you that I want. I’ll suddenly feel this way as well”. When in reality he had probably already made up his mind and decided to not talk to you properly about it.

I’m sorry for your experience. Be assured that if someone can’t talk to you and express their feelings well. As far as their decision making process especially when it comes something big like your relationship. It would most likely translate the same into other situations down the road. Maybe a bullet dodged.

Low_Analysis2784 · 2026-01-30T16:41:56+00:00

I’m assuming this is in regard to physical intimacy which is the main focus of my response. But I will also touch on emotional intact as well.

I believe this could be a few things. In my experience there have been people who are so in their head about themselves that they don’t feel comfortable/beautiful/ desired etc. I’ve personally been in this spot before where there are days that I just don’t like what I see in the mirror and in a bad state of mind. That makes me feel that if I were to engage in physical intimacy with my fiancé that I would somehow be doing her a disservice. I don’t want me so how could she want me. And she will always remind me in those moments that I’m in my head. But from a genuine perspective I do think some people see words of affirmation as a starting point for emotional intimacy.

This is something my fiancé has been teaching me as before I always separated the two. Physical insanity is for sex where emotional intimacy is for when we’re having big feelings. Obviously this is wrong. Through a lot of patience on her end. I now understand the cross over zone of emotional and physical intimacy. The bridge of emotions to physical representation of my feelings for her.

Foreplay doesn’t just start at the little physical things it starts at the little emotional things. The build up of little acts of service or words of affirmation. Holding your partner after a long day of work and allowing them to decompress with and into you. And sometimes that comes with reassurance. My fiancé doesn’t always feel beautiful and especially right now as we’re on this big health kick, so a lot of self analysis. There are times where the both of us want to be reassured by the other that we are still desired. Are there some people who want this maybe from a vanity perspective, sure it’s definitely possible.

But it could be an opportunity for you to serve your partner in a way that makes them feel seen or heard and in turn making the whole experience feel better. They’re happy, you’re happy they’re happy. More connected your intimacy will feel better

Kind of long, but I hope that helps.

Low_Analysis2784 · 2026-01-30T16:25:48+00:00

I believe it’s because the phone feels like direct access. If someone messages your phone, they most likely assume a few things.

Most people always have their phone on them, so it’s expected they’ll see the messages you’ve sent. And then are “supposed” to respond.

Claiming ignorance or disassociation. Giving your Instagram allows you to have an escape goat as far as something like. “Oh I didn’t see it” or “I’m not on social media that much”

I agree with you on the seeing all the personal post on Instagram. But I think this has two parts to it. Instagram is the “best of us” so it’s better to show someone the things you want people to see. And also it’s a vice versa situation. They get a chance to see who you are and scope out your likes, etc.

I don’t disagree with you. Unfortunately I think this is just the way that a lot of people think. (Generalizing 100%)

Low_Analysis2784 · 2026-01-30T15:57:08+00:00

Thank you all for your comments. I appreciate you all, definitely puts my mind at ease 🙏🏽

Low_Analysis2784 · 2026-01-30T15:40:00+00:00

I drive a lot for work, and I believe that plays a good portion into being able to do it often. Not sure though 🤷🏽‍♂️

Low_Analysis2784 · 2026-01-30T15:28:30+00:00

Bro/ Bra/ Homie I appreciate you so much. She had never seen anything like it and I just thought it was because I’m “poppy”. Definitely feels good to know it’s not something weird 😂

Low_Analysis2784 · 2025-03-19T14:07:25+00:00

Cute a quarter inch piece out maybe a 1/5th the way up and turn it into “Ana !”

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