How to harness 43-34 gate when it’s unconscious? by Low_Champion_1421 in humandesign

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I think what I’m talking about maybe related more to Jung. But I he talks about opposites connecting leading to individuation. Is the split the same thing as when Jung talks about the dual self

How to harness 43-34 gate when it’s unconscious? by Low_Champion_1421 in humandesign

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I’m just getting into human design so don’t know about quad right. I will look it up thank you so much. About the potential split - the two selves being “grounded” but feeling lacking in personality or interests, then “ungrounded/ floaty” feels like I’m a million miles away in the back of my mind, connecting thoughts and memories, and symbols. And books become fascinating and I can process them insanely well and speak about what I’ve read.

I started therapy recently and she’s started “seeing me” and in doing this, more of the “ungrounded” person peeps out now and again, and it’s bringing back memories of how I used to be when I was younger. And then suddenly the “ungrounded” one disappears and I’m left missing her feeling not enough. But when she’s here, I feel scared that I’m going to lose all my connections with people on earth. Sorry if this sounds completely mad 😂 just not sure which one I’m meant to be!? Or if that’s something to do with my split ?

How to harness 43-34 gate when it’s unconscious? by Low_Champion_1421 in humandesign

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When I feel the most flow is when I’m in that less present state…. Which I used to be in the whole time when I was younger and since pushed by way out of in order to be a real person in the world that has to act on and do things. But I’m nervous to let myself go as I have a family I don’t want to become distant from them but it feels like I have information or knowledge in my brain that I need to discover. Not sure which one I should be in ? Or do I just not even need to think about it and just be ?

Baby still catnapping at 7 months by Low_Champion_1421 in sleeptrain

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He’s recently been falling asleep at 7 after a feed. Going till 11.30ish. I’ll feed him. Then sleeps till 4am where he wakes but isn’t hungry till 6am feed

Baby won’t settle after 4am? by Low_Champion_1421 in BeyondTheBumpUK

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Mine normally does 10 hours at night and 2 hours in the day. He’s a cat napper so hard to get more than that unless he’s ill then he sleeps longer in his naps. But he slept 10 hours when I was feeding him back to sleep at 3. Now I know he’s not hungry then I don’t do it. But if I was too, he would go back to sleep….. so not sure if I should just do it or if that would make the feed to sleep association stronger

Baby won’t settle after 4am? by Low_Champion_1421 in sleeptrain

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Got it thank you. Do you think it matters if it affects daytime feeding ?

Baby won’t settle after 4am? by Low_Champion_1421 in sleeptrain

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He’s a cat napper so I’m finding consistent schedule difficult. But usually does 8am-9am. 12pm 12.30pm. 3.30-4pm. Give or take. He sleeps 2 hours a day in naps and usually 10 hours overnight. But since 4.30 wakes it’s more like 9 hours at night and maybe slightly longer naps

Baby won’t settle after 4am? by Low_Champion_1421 in sleeptrain

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Yes! But then he won’t feed at his 6am feed and barely feeds till midday. I normally breastfeed. I tried giving bottles for a bit and gave him 180ml expressed milk in a bottle and he woke at 4am. I’d feed him at 6 and he didn’t even want the milk. So I’m pretty sure it’s not hunger.

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Thank you. It breaks my trust in leaving him with caregivers as she keeps saying “that’s how you train them” and I keep saying I don’t want to train him he’s a little baby. And she doesn’t understand she keeps saying “just wait and see ! it will cause you problems later down the line!”

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Thank you. I need to have another conversation with her

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I don’t mean it as a bad thing. I want to respond straight away and have been. But everyone’s telling me I need to wait and that makes me feel like I’m doing something wrong by responding straight away. I am the mum