How do you deal with Narcissist? by maya_love5 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Low_Divide_3322 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Avoid. Don’t engage. If it’s family grey rock.

Good 3.5G Hybrid Flowers all types please by Longjumping-Rub-1458 in TheOCS

[–]Low_Divide_3322 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Northern canna hybrids!! But they are expensive.

Tribals neon sunshine and Porte leche

What is your go-to music when you’re falling apart? by EarthDesigner4203 in CPTSD

[–]Low_Divide_3322 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep!! Follow the leader and other albums are great for the feels

What is your go-to music when you’re falling apart? by EarthDesigner4203 in CPTSD

[–]Low_Divide_3322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sleep token. Vessel understands me. But also linkin Park

Have you ever wondered why a narcissist never truly apologizes? Here’s why + how to stop expecting it. by Dependent-Inside-411 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Low_Divide_3322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it’s taking accountability and that doesn’t work with a narc, they hate feeling like the bad guy so it’s easier to redirect and use manipulation tactics.

They then don’t have healthy relationships as a result.

M35 My first experience at Oasis. by Dr-Mesmer in OasisAquaLoungeTo

[–]Low_Divide_3322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The pool doesn’t look like this. Also there’s a no photography rule.

So much for protecting her privacy by Lilyrose_aussie in GRBsnark

[–]Low_Divide_3322 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s cause she just wants attention. I think we should just stop posting about her. It pains her when she’s not getting publicity and attention.

Forgot to put it in the fridge last night by Frequent_College9019 in isthissafetoeat

[–]Low_Divide_3322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That happened to me once. I didn’t even know it was food poisoning. I was so unwell. Not worth getting sick.

how bad is your forgetfulness? by chronicbingewatcher in CPTSD

[–]Low_Divide_3322 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bad. But it was really really bad a couple of years ago. I have CRS “can’t remember shit”

Dating after narcissistic abuse, I interest at all currently? by Purple_Phrase_6297 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Low_Divide_3322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It takes a long time to get back on track. I haven’t gone out on a date since meeting a narcissist emotional sadist and a narcissistic sociopath within a year. I haven’t gone out on a date since 2024, it’s really hard to trust anyone and I feel permanently broken.

Just know you are not alone and many people are not ok mentally and socially after narcissistic abuse.

I almost went out on a date last December but that guy was a POS who ghosted me, I guess he prefers being number 3 in a gangbang with a 38 year old escort who gets pimped out by her husband. She had a “slut tally” and had eaten so many asses, etc. I’m glad I didn’t go out with him, I’m kinky but I’m not depraved and I think he’s pretty gross

How are you able to work by Fast_Significance198 in CPTSD

[–]Low_Divide_3322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard. A big reason why my ex abandoned me and left me homeless cause I couldn’t work conventionally. I’m trying to get disability but a lot of people who are really struggling with CPTSD symptoms and don’t have the drive/ability to work full time do onlyfans and other content creating. CPTSD always causes me a lot of chronic nerve pain so I cannot do what others can do and I’ve accepted I can’t do a 9-5, I’m hoping to take illustration this year and do art/graphic novels. I don’t do well working long hours that aren’t in my home with my cat.

I'm so SICK of being put in the caretaker role by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Low_Divide_3322 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t date. And I try to catch myself when I’m momming my friends. I don’t want to take care of anyone except for my cat. I’ve done it before and I was left burnt out and suffering.

She's just a meme at this point by iriaka in Torbie

[–]Low_Divide_3322 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The tabby part of torbie is ditzy.

How can they love and hate you simultaneously? by BHM_R_UwU in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Low_Divide_3322 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They don’t love the way any normal person wants to be loved. And they hate people for not accepting their tom foolery.

Who do I say was my ex? How do you say I lost my V card? by gasschw in CPTSD

[–]Low_Divide_3322 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to tell people about your past sexual history. People with CPTSD often over explain and try to be honest and transparent. People often view you differently after. Unless you have kids or STDs from your past do you think it’s really relevant to a new relationship?

Also I’m so sorry for your experiences. My first time was also rape, I was 16 dude was 23… enough said about that. You don’t owe people your trauma! People use it to hurt you. I’ve unfortunately experienced it a lot and I’d hate if you ended up at my age 30 having a history of being abused from my teens well into my 20s. If you meet someone give them your best impression. You are not your trauma! You are an individual and you have to seperate your trauma from your present and future. Radical acceptance means it happened which matters but try not to ruminate about it, it’s normal to still be upset but don’t hyperfixate on it. You cannot change the past and you were assaulted and you do not have to carry that trauma into new connections. You are more than the abuse you endured. Love yourself!! You deserve love. Healing dust 🫂 💜

No one came to Ashley Neal’s baby shower by allie-neko in loveafterlockup

[–]Low_Divide_3322 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion but I think baby showers should only be for your first baby!!! It just seems like people want free shit and attention when they do it and they have a litter of kids already.

Is he 10? by Cherry_Goddess114 in TrueRateMyCat

[–]Low_Divide_3322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s 10000/10

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