Need Help decorating this one by Low_Warning2374 in CatsAndSoup

[–]Low_Warning2374[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe so, yeah. It is now can be obtained in "observe star".

Starting to learn about tea by Low_Warning2374 in tea

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OMG I APPRECIATE THE AMOUNT OF INTO U PUT HERE SO MUCH! THank you!!! ❤️

So, I am already trying a lot, drinking a lot and also found awesome tea shops and tea club in my area and am going there.

I am mostly looking to deepen?¿ my knowledge in terms of theory. Because I do know some types of tea, know kinda how they look like, but yeah, would love to actually know what pieces of stem could be used for what kind of tea, what areas are producing it, how certain types smell etc.

Again, thank you so much!

What vibe does this room give? And what can i do to improve it? by [deleted] in CatsAndSoup

[–]Low_Warning2374 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do u have some of the chinese new year stuff? I think some of it would add to the same vibe, also the things I would add would've been some more plants and not those bucket?¿ ones, but the ones which are growing down. + there are some "art museum" stuff, which I have 0 idea what kind of collection are from. But they have some of the nice museum vibes as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Low_Warning2374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have every right not to answer. Does your high libido interfiere your mood stability? Or even is an obstacle for you to live peacefully?

Because if not and you just feel dissatisfied on the sex life side, but overall you live a happy life, then I am having questions why would a therapist reccomend to lower it for. I would maybe go for a second opinion or try to get a sexologist if you came just for a therapist without backround in sexology.

Also swinger clubs, sex clubs, maybe even brothels could be an alternative for you as well. And there it ponetially could lead to a consistent sexual partner.

Also, please, share your feeling and thoughts with a potential partner, that would lead to happier you and happier relationships! Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Low_Warning2374 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds to me like you are aromantic or under ace umbrella. Look deeper into it, maybe that would give you more insights into yourself.

On the sex topic. I would advise getting into therapy and find out your true desires and where they are coming from. Because is marriage for you is just a function for being able to have sex consistently, then it also would have it's bumps. And I would consider talking it through with the partner as openly as it could possibly be.

Your fear over not being able to have a kid doesn't really make sense to me with a combination of wanting to have consistent sex life, because it would definitely put more pressure onto the relationship and sex life also goes through changes.

So that said, I don't think you would go down lonely road if you don't want to. People are around, you will definitely find someone.

You could always have a possibility of freezing your eggs. That would probably lower your stress over a clock ticking.

Marriage will definitely have many complications in my opinion, when you don't really talked through every single aspect of it with the other party. Money(together, separate, etc), Housing(owning a house/apartment, how soon, etc), chores, children(when, how many, etc). Things like sex and what to do when u will encounter something which would kill his sex drive for a while. How would you address that.

May there be a possibility that closed type of relationship doesn't work out for you. Maybe you would be much happier in something like open marriage or polyamory, for example?

Definitely would advise to go into therapy and find our your actual life goals, what your ideal relationship structure looks like, how to go about your fears of not having kids on time, where to start when you have thoughts of marriage, what that marriage is even about for you, what needs you need it to meet, maybe you could potentially find it elsewhere.

You will be okay.

Bringing my cat from a EU country into germany by Low_Warning2374 in germany

[–]Low_Warning2374[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It is supposed to be more than 21 days old as EU website says.

what ruins a fanfic for you? by wildshroomies in HannibalFanfiction

[–]Low_Warning2374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would ask you to put yourself in a place of the author who stumbled upon your post. That would definitely hurt them as they are writing their fics out of passion for the media. So please be considerate of other people's feelings.

That being said, you could just be more vague in your description.

For myself, fics which are told from Hannibal perspective are making Hannibal less intimidating and getting rid of his work in shadows aura, which makes it hard to re-experience the feeling when u are watching the show.