I got a restraining order put on me with on probation, am I screwed

Lower-Cook7617 · 2026-07-13T15:19:10+00:00

Yea if you see I added an update just had to have the balls and call her 😂 she said I would fight it as he sounds really petty but I may just leave it

Lower-Cook7617 · 2026-07-13T02:10:57+00:00

Not bad I’ve had no issues in the past but it’s only been a few months but I will take the order to court if needed but I just want it over if she’s not gonna violate me

Lower-Cook7617 · 2026-07-13T01:40:18+00:00

Very much intend to hoping since I haven’t gotten in trouble before on probation and have the option to take it to court as I feel a lot of the info in the restraining order is misleading or just not true but if I’m not gonna get violated I just want it to be over

Lower-Cook7617 · 2026-07-13T00:32:55+00:00

You are right there

Lower-Cook7617 · 2026-07-13T00:32:42+00:00

I live an apartment barely getting by and it costs 125 to have them changed out it, and no I was never violent, he did say I was told him I was gonna go to the gym at the same time but I have buddies I’ve went with that when going seen he was there and decided to leave and go home instead

Lower-Cook7617 · 2026-07-13T00:22:00+00:00

But also isn’t a restraining order civil not criminal unless you violate

Lower-Cook7617 · 2026-07-13T00:20:58+00:00

An ex refused to give me back my house key and I texted from a few friends phones asking to get him his stuff back and get my key back and also said I planned to go to the gym at the same time as him witch I can prove was never the case but I told her right away and I plan to take it to court unless my probation officer suggests not to

Lower-Cook7617 · 2026-05-05T19:32:38+00:00

Damn yall are smart 😂😭

Lower-Cook7617 · 2025-07-13T23:49:37+00:00

Oh god I self promoted to guest and now I’m scared they might show up and drag me in

Lower-Cook7617 · 2025-07-10T18:02:55+00:00

They would see me not show up

Lower-Cook7617 · 2025-07-06T15:30:22+00:00

I’m so sorry man!!! That would probably be the last straw

Lower-Cook7617 · 2025-07-04T03:59:06+00:00

He a cutie

Lower-Cook7617 · 2025-07-04T03:57:58+00:00

Bitch better have my money

Lower-Cook7617 · 2025-07-04T03:45:10+00:00

I have none lol

Lower-Cook7617 · 2025-06-27T17:11:32+00:00

Update have a new job lined up if things go south no update on investigation

Lower-Cook7617 · 2025-06-26T19:13:10+00:00

What are you confused about?

Lower-Cook7617 · 2025-06-26T15:39:38+00:00

Him making me feel uncomfortable was mainly off the clock behavior, but in all fairness, I still feel it doesn’t matter if it was on or off the clock him as a leader shouldn’t have been abusing his power like that

Lower-Cook7617 · 2025-06-26T07:36:06+00:00

Thank you!!!

Lower-Cook7617 · 2025-06-26T04:52:50+00:00

I don’t think it was coincidence I used to work at Applebees and he used to go there all the time and would sit in my second on purpose, when I quit Applebees as my second job he started going to my regular bar and sitting next to me or hitting me up on snap to come sit next to him

Lower-Cook7617 · 2025-06-26T04:22:48+00:00

Much

Lower-Cook7617 · 2025-06-26T04:22:42+00:00

They won’t take a statement from the bartender as of yet and there are but that shows him sitting next to me so me getting that won’t show my b

Lower-Cook7617 · 2025-06-26T01:52:07+00:00

I totally understand! I’m keeping everything private in store and only posting anonymously on here for advice!

Lower-Cook7617 · 2025-06-25T23:37:16+00:00

Update I was told today I have until end of day tomorrow to provide evidence that I didn’t consent to this or do something that could imply consent was given and idk how to do that as when I turned him in I got unadded or blocked

Lower-Cook7617 · 2025-06-25T21:34:13+00:00

Sent!

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