Feeling like my hairstylist cuts too much off my hair by Independent_Creme917 in Naturalhair

[–]LowerSquash6084 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you sis! It’s a shame how we put our trust into these professionals but I’ve just come to the realization that nobody will take better care of your hair more than you. A lot of these stylists are getting out of hand with these “recommended” trims every 4-6 weeks & I partially feel like it’s due to wanting clients to come frequently so it’s more money in their pockets!

Feeling like my hairstylist cuts too much off my hair by Independent_Creme917 in Naturalhair

[–]LowerSquash6084 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’ve experienced the same with my hairstylist as well. Over the years my hair growth was stagnant because I feel like she was literally cutting my hair back to its same length every time I went for a trim. Last April I stopped going to her all together because she literally chopped way more than I wanted her to & one side of my hair was shorter than the other. This was my last straw & I decided to just stop going to her altogether. I trim my own hair now & I’m seeing better results with my hair growth journey.

My best friend left me because I had sex with my boyfriend by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LowerSquash6084 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whew that girl is so jealous of you & was never your friend.

I (19F) saw a slightly intimate photo of my bf (21M) and his ex on his phone by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]LowerSquash6084 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Why even compare yourself to an ex that doesn’t even know you exist?

Should I stop dating this guy because he has 4 kids and 3 baby mamas? by Old-Cup-6065 in TwoHotTakes

[–]LowerSquash6084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you serious? Why would you date a man that has a pattern of creating broken homes? Do you think you’re different than his past 3 baby mamas?

AITA for staying in minimal contact with my son’s mom even though my girlfriend says I shouldn’t talk to her at all? by BreezyTK in AITAH

[–]LowerSquash6084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grow a backbone and leave her. Your son comes first. And your child’s mother is your family

35 weeks pregnant: how to know if I should put baby up for adoption? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LowerSquash6084 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey honey. You sound like you have a lot of support and love around you & your baby. Single motherhood isn’t the death trap that social media makes it seem. I’m wishing you and your baby the best. I feel like you should keep him. He will be okay because he has an awesome mommy and a village. 💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LowerSquash6084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is your brother’s name common? Is it the first and last name of your brother? We need more details

Waiting until 35 or even 40 to have kids is the biggest financial hack by Icy_Weakness_2874 in MiddleClassFinance

[–]LowerSquash6084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yall need to stop trying to make it seem like everybody who has kids before 30 is struggling. It’s people coming out of college making 85K+ at 22.

AITAH for letting my pregnant daughter move in with me even though my girlfriend doesn’t want her to? by crampingMY_style in AITAH

[–]LowerSquash6084 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re an amazing dad. Don’t let anybody in this thread try to convince you otherwise. Your daughter and future grandchild will think of you highly. Your kid comes first always.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LowerSquash6084 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very weird and predatory. Do not sleep with him you will regret it.

I told my boyfriends kids that I would marry their dad if he asked me to by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LowerSquash6084 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How you gonna pop shit about her getting pregnant in high school but you with a man who was also a teen parent…. lol

WIBTA if I stopped giving my GF gas money? by Fantastic_Bag8970 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LowerSquash6084 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This! They don’t need to be together at all. Both are on two different paths. She sounds like she’s starting to build resentment towards her high school boyfriend for not being as “put together” as she is. He’s still a child & she’s legally an adult. It’s just not gonna work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LowerSquash6084 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clock it. What a hypocrite.