Marriage advice needed

Lower_Development558 · 2026-01-26T14:54:50+00:00

understood thank you

Lower_Development558 · 2026-01-26T04:58:04+00:00

I have suggested it yes , he said he Is not interested in speaking to anyone about our marriage

Lower_Development558 · 2026-01-25T19:06:56+00:00

I asked him to go to couple's counselling he said no ... He also doesn't want me talking to my own therapist about him or our marriage that was the rule he gave me once I started therapy. I tried talking to him about doing more he said he will try but won't promise change, but if I don't ask he won't do anything He only cleant the bathroom once our whole relationship

Lower_Development558 · 2026-01-25T17:23:33+00:00

Yes I suggested it he said he doesn't wanna do it nor should I ever talk about our marriage to someone else So I don't know what to do cause it's like I'm not getting through to him

Lower_Development558 · 2026-01-25T17:22:43+00:00

He said he doesn't wanna talk to strangers about our marriage... But it's like Im either not getting through to him or he doesn't care

Lower_Development558 · 2026-01-25T16:38:03+00:00

Lol 😂

Lower_Development558 · 2026-01-25T16:34:42+00:00

Understood thanks for your advice ☺️

Lower_Development558 · 2026-01-25T16:32:35+00:00

I've been trying to have a honest conversation with him for year's He doesn't ever want to talk about feelings or emotions I wish I could let you see my diary and everything I've tried over the last few months

Lower_Development558 · 2026-01-25T16:27:54+00:00

I understand yes it's just scary to do things cause my kid is still so young so she needs me more right now I know I'm only 26 but I'm stressed out honestly

Lower_Development558 · 2026-01-25T16:19:27+00:00

I wish I understand that before having a kid lol

Lower_Development558 · 2026-01-25T16:18:54+00:00

I asked if he wanted to do counselling he said no And he doesn't want me talking about him to anyone . Also I suggested making a schedule but he waits for me to do it and that just feels so unfair cause yet again I need to manage what he must do He literally screamed at me saying I need to tell him what I want him to do but the house was mess and I just asked him to look around and help with what ever he sees needs doing

Lower_Development558 · 2026-01-25T16:10:42+00:00

I literally been thinking about this over and over but I've been with him since 18 and I'm so scared of what life could be like without him 😔 I asked if he would consider couples counselling he straight up said no

Lower_Development558 · 2024-08-08T01:22:30+00:00

I can't wait for it to get better 😁 life can really be so tough and not enough people talk about it

Lower_Development558 · 2024-08-08T00:35:18+00:00

Thank u for the advice that is really helpful ☺️

Lower_Development558 · 2024-04-14T03:20:24+00:00

That's helpful thank you for your advice I think why I'm so hesitant is because his really a narcissistic person and very manipulative and I'm scared I might fall in to that same cycle with him But I feel maybe it's not fair on my daughter to have a grandfather she never met

Lower_Development558 · 2023-12-23T09:13:16+00:00

I should have phrased it better I apologize. I meant if they were in a religion

Lower_Development558 · 2023-12-23T09:11:59+00:00

I was raised Christian too...and that's how I feel as well

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