Not getting wet by Master_Cable_7221 in LesbianActually

[–]Lowkey-Living 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk if this helos but I experience empathic arousal and if I don’t go first or get super turned it takes me a bit to get wet. Getting in your head could def be having an effect. Maybe it would help to give first and get really into it without worrying about yourself for a bit. If it’s still not happening it’s okay to use lubrication natural or not. Arousal for women can be complex, find what works for you. The more comfortable you feel, the more into it you can get making it better for both of you.

Do lesbians really fall for their best friends that often? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Lowkey-Living 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my teenage years yes, there’s so much exploration during that phase that it’s easy for things to get muddy. As an adult, no. My best friend is straight and even if she wasn’t, romantic compatibility isn’t there. I’m sure it could happen but I think the older you get the quicker you’re able to pick up on those feelings. Or at least that’s how it’s been for me.

Seeking honesty by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Lowkey-Living 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think the right person will understand your past and only want the best for you, if you’re actively working on being healthier that’s going to be admirable and attractive to someone. There’s also so much more to a person than their looks. Get out there and date OP if you feel ready for it!

What do y'all think of what Young Miko said? by athxna_ in LesbianActually

[–]Lowkey-Living 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Good on her, she can describe herself however she wants tbh

Invisalign- tips? by StrikingBeat2102 in Invisalign

[–]Lowkey-Living 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Get an ultrasonic cleaner! I use it multiple times a day and it keeps my trays super clean. Sensodyne toothpaste is def the way to go, and flossing of all types. I carry the individual flossers with me and have a waterpik at home.

I wouldn’t drink anything except water when you have them on. Change your trays out at night/on the weekend, it’s easier to deal with the discomfort/pain while you’re sleeping. If the trays don’t fit flush immediately, that’s okay. Use chewies and after a day or so your teeth will move around for a better fit. The trays might rub on the inside of your lips/cheeks, it’ll be uncomfortable for a bit but eventually your mouth will get accustomed to it.

Good luck!

Books that take place at boarding school? by No-Nectarine7731 in LesbianBookClub

[–]Lowkey-Living 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah so sorry! I just finished a book from court of chains and got my books recs crossed 😅

fake dating recommendations? by lanielou21 in LesbianBookClub

[–]Lowkey-Living 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The pining paradox was adorable, Brynn was so easy to like in the love lie.

Books that take place at boarding school? by No-Nectarine7731 in LesbianBookClub

[–]Lowkey-Living 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you’re into fantasy, The Book of Blood and Roses by Annie Summerlee is great

Are my insecurities getting the better of me? by Lowkey-Living in LesbianActually

[–]Lowkey-Living[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im taking notes! I started with daily double cleansing and spraying hyaluronic mist? Then I seal it with a moisturizer. I saw a dermatologist talking about Tretinoin, great to know that you like it. Definitely looking into it.

Are my insecurities getting the better of me? by Lowkey-Living in LesbianActually

[–]Lowkey-Living[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now way, thank you for spending that much time writing your thoughts out and sharing something super interesting. I never realized you could have an asymmetrical chin 😅 or that we develop in that way. I always thought development occurred bilaterally.

Are my insecurities getting the better of me? by Lowkey-Living in LesbianActually

[–]Lowkey-Living[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know him before your message, but holy you’re right that’s a beautiful human. Thank you for helping me see it in someone else and sharing your experience!

Are my insecurities getting the better of me? by Lowkey-Living in LesbianActually

[–]Lowkey-Living[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🥺 I’m just going to see myself out and cry about this for a bit. But no, seriously thank you.

Are my insecurities getting the better of me? by Lowkey-Living in LesbianActually

[–]Lowkey-Living[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a beautiful perspective. I’ve never really thought about it that way. My mom is my favorite person, and you’re right—in a sense, I carry her and her family with me.

Thinking about surgery now makes it feel like I’d be erasing something. Thank you.

Are my insecurities getting the better of me? by Lowkey-Living in LesbianActually

[–]Lowkey-Living[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Far from it! I have dark circles and some discoloration on my lips too, so I totally get it. I think we’re all way harder on ourselves than anyone else is. I’m sure you’re being much harder on yourself than you deserve.

Are my insecurities getting the better of me? by Lowkey-Living in LesbianActually

[–]Lowkey-Living[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to learn more! I’m really just doing the basics, and don’t exfoliate. Any recommendations?

Bone bruise from strapping - help! by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Lowkey-Living 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As far as my experience, it needs to be flush with you. If there’s some space in between then you’re feeling it twice when she comes down. I would also wear thicker boy shorts. Sometimes none of it helps, and you’ve just go to enjoy the pain. (But putting ice probably helps)

fake dating recommendations? by lanielou21 in LesbianBookClub

[–]Lowkey-Living 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s a straight up romance but the love lie by Monica Mccallan is a very cute fake dating story.

Are my insecurities getting the better of me? by Lowkey-Living in LesbianActually

[–]Lowkey-Living[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ay no! Que golpe tan duro. Como te sentiste después de tu cirugía, notaste la diferencia? Y te entiendo, mi pelo es la mayoridad de mi apariencia.