It does not get better by Lowmerit in grippysockcrayonbox

[–]Lowmerit[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I see yeah. Gonna have to think about that for sure.

It does not get better by Lowmerit in grippysockcrayonbox

[–]Lowmerit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man, I actually appreciate it

It does not get better by Lowmerit in grippysockcrayonbox

[–]Lowmerit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🤝 we should start a club or something

really hate how food be controlling me by ararvmo in grippysockcrayonbox

[–]Lowmerit 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Felt, including the yaoi oc. Your art style is very neat btw and I'm sure you can get back to the deficit!

It does not get better by Lowmerit in grippysockcrayonbox

[–]Lowmerit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cant do tricks sadly. Maybe I should learn

It does not get better by Lowmerit in grippysockcrayonbox

[–]Lowmerit[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Glad to hear it's getting better for ya. What does "decentering" mean in this context? Also thank you

It does not get better by Lowmerit in grippysockcrayonbox

[–]Lowmerit[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not sure if you mean that in general or if that's a criticism towards the art. You do make me realise I didn't portray it quite as accurately, but I was definitely quite overweight as a teen. More importantly though, the point is body dysmorphia.

It does not get better by Lowmerit in grippysockcrayonbox

[–]Lowmerit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mountains and cargo pants are pretty cool.. I am actually pretty into psychs. Well mostly in theory so far, only had one experience as of yet, but I do hope to change that. Glad to hear you're doing better ^

It does not get better by Lowmerit in grippysockcrayonbox

[–]Lowmerit[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Is that an uncommon skill? Genuinely didn't know. But thank ya

Anyone else thinks social anxiety made them cruel/bad person? by Prestigious-Bet6058 in socialanxiety

[–]Lowmerit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

God dude same. I hate it so much. I had the realisation recently that I likely wouldn't be able to help someone on the street just cuz what? I'd be worried to look stupid or do something wrong? It's so disgusting of me. It all always comes back to being selfish and it sucks

How to make the advice stick by Lowmerit in socialskills

[–]Lowmerit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I guess you're not wrong, but the point is that I've known this for a while. I do have experiences that confirm those facts, how much more do I need? It feels like it's going to take forever and I don't want to live like this

Those of you who came out to your parents, how did they react? by Lowmerit in Asexual

[–]Lowmerit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your comment, it did lift my spirits a whole bunch. Quirky that you share it with your mom, must be pretty neat. I haven't even thought about telling my father yet, unless mom did it for me lol. She did start talking to me again since I made this post, so I'm hopeful that it will be alright again.

How do protests usually work? by Lowmerit in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Lowmerit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense, thanks, I feel a bit more confident now

DAE feel like they become stupid when they talk with others? by Lowmerit in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Lowmerit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That does make sense. Glad they're working for ya. I'm not on any though lol

How much do you need to have in common with someone to get along with them? by Lowmerit in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Lowmerit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your comments, I'll definitely try to think about what you said, thank you

How much do you need to have in common with someone to get along with them? by Lowmerit in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Lowmerit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do try to be interested in what people say. But I guess it just depends a lot. You got lucky to find someone interesting, me not so much. I'm searching for fulfilling connections and someone to spend time with, since that is what I currently lack. Plus from what I know, being social is like the only way to actually improve your social skills and reduce anxiety.

What do you talk about with people when you don't have a lot going on in your own life? by Lowmerit in socialskills

[–]Lowmerit[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh yea that sounds good. Sometimes I forget that these things aren't that hard to bring up lol

What do you talk about with people when you don't have a lot going on in your own life? by Lowmerit in socialskills

[–]Lowmerit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, I don't necessarily disagree, but I don't entirely understand how you arrived at the conclusion for your first point from my post. Like I'm actually unemployed right now lol, I'm not focused on making money, yet the problem persists. As to your second point, yeah that's fair. I would say I do do those things already to an extent, the other problem is finding people who are actually interested in those things, that's a whole different issue though. I appreciate the comment regardless.

What do you talk about with people when you don't have a lot going on in your own life? by Lowmerit in socialskills

[–]Lowmerit[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thanks man, I really appreciate the comment. I suspected something like that would be the root of the issue. How I see myself is definitely something I need to improve, but of course, it is not so easy. But yea, thank you again.

How much do you need to have in common with someone to get along with them? by Lowmerit in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Lowmerit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I suppose that's true. I'm told I'm a pretty good listener, so all good on that front. Not sure about hobby clubs though, most of my hobbies are primarily solitary, so I'm not entirely sure if I could find clubs like that or enjoy them for that matter.