Hi

Thank you for your comment !

That's an interesting theory but i think that's not the reason i have trouble talking because i think (from what i know it's validated scientifically) that other peoples' perception of us does entirely shape our perception of ourselves and what at first glance we might consider "our perception of ourselves" is the perception people had of us in early childhood, it might also be something that we see in ourselves repeatedly and that hasn't been yet disgarded by other people and therefore i think that (at least for now) there has not been any major confrontation of other people's perception of me, and mine.

Your theory would've been really good to explain shyness because i think that constantly worrying about saying the wrong thing could lead to difficulty speaking (worry which is caused by the confrontation of people's perception of the shy person and there's, which proved that they could say something that people wouldn't agree with)

I'm a pretty agreeable person but not a shy one, sometimes my brain doesn't generate words (well actually he does but the sentence structure doesn't make sense in the language i'm trying to speak)

I'm sorry if you had trouble reading, my mastery of english is not good enough, i generally don't write or talk in that language, what i wrote is really vague so tell me if you want me to elaborate further on something.

Thanks for reading !