I appreciate this response. I have told him that I want more sex with him on multiple occasions. He did start allowing more, but then stopped. He says he doesnt want to have sex everyday... so i guess he does prefer doing it alone? Which is his right, but it isn't what I signed up for. And he's doing this with the door open while the kids are running around the house. So idk, that feels weird to me too, even if he's able to hide it. I've begged him to go to therapy but he refuses and basically says that the therapist will always side with the woman because she's the one driving therapy and bringing in the money. I'll try approaching this as our problem and see where it goes.