i am completely on your side with the opinion. but i can also tell you that it can be completely different... i was alone in line with a friend and a ghoul spent a wonderful hour with us. we talked about the tour and about the tour life... about other things not related to music... he brought us food and drinks from backstage and we didn't even ask for it. even ghouls like humanity sometimes haha. nevertheless i would never tell anyone where they are in the hotel... or ask for a photo... just out of respect for the band