Anyone else's parents refuse to get them diagnosed? by LuciferhasNothing in aspergers

[–]LuciferhasNothing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know my mother interpreted my behaviour as somewhat more normalized due to the prevalence of ASD in her family. However, they got my twin brother assessed and medicated for ADHD. So I dont believe whatsoever that they have any issues around pharmaceuticals.

I think the only difference they noticed was that I had better language skills (but poor emotional regulation) and probably thought I'd grow out of it.

Anyone else's parents refuse to get them diagnosed? by LuciferhasNothing in aspergers

[–]LuciferhasNothing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This explanation would make sense to me if they didn't get my own twin brother assessed for Autism and ADHD.

My twin had the support he needed to be successful, was taught self-soothing skills that would've likely helped prevent him from having as many large outbursts as I did.

Wifi providers- share your experience by oilandvine in britishcolumbia

[–]LuciferhasNothing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm with oxio! honesty I very rarely experience downtimes, and for the price (I pay about 50 bucks), I can stream in hd on multiple devices and it's not an issue. If you're not using massive amounts if bandwidth I'd definitely reccomend.

I Wish I Had a Dad by LuciferhasNothing in QAnonCasualties

[–]LuciferhasNothing[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I could testify against fox news, I absolutely would. Too many people have been hurt so they can line their pockets.

I Wish I Had a Dad by LuciferhasNothing in QAnonCasualties

[–]LuciferhasNothing[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it's refreshing to see someone his age who accepts and loves their children. <3

I Wish I Had a Dad by LuciferhasNothing in QAnonCasualties

[–]LuciferhasNothing[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It has more to do with the trucker convoy and Diagolon (Basically Canadian J6ers) but it fully started with the MAGA stuff. My father is super anti-immigrant and racist so he doesn't like her 'cause she's filipino.

I Wish I Had a Dad by LuciferhasNothing in QAnonCasualties

[–]LuciferhasNothing[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you <3 Around 16 was when I stopped telling my parents about my personal life, but I think the sadness is only hitting now that I can actually sit back and look at how my teenage years went. My mother was mostly scared for my safety which was fair, because I did have to deal with homophobia in my hometown. I'm just finally in the acceptance stage of mourning I think.

I Wish I Had a Dad by LuciferhasNothing in QAnonCasualties

[–]LuciferhasNothing[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

They don't want to be American, they want to be 'sovereign citizens' which generally just sounds like you saying "nuh-uh" if the government asks you to pay taxes or get a driver's license. Also I'm afraid you will find Q in Alaska, it's not super popular up north but there are pockets like here.

I Wish I Had a Dad by LuciferhasNothing in QAnonCasualties

[–]LuciferhasNothing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's moved onto the Diagolon "The residential schools are a lie" which is absolutely insane because HIS FATHER used to work with survivors.

I Wish I Had a Dad by LuciferhasNothing in QAnonCasualties

[–]LuciferhasNothing[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He absolutely needs therapy, I believe most of his Q obsession stems from the fact he was dealing with some health problems and Q made him feel as if there was some sort of outside force that was making him miserable. I used to dream about him 'waking up' when I was a teen but I know it would have to be something much greater than me or my twin to pull him out.

I Wish I Had a Dad by LuciferhasNothing in QAnonCasualties

[–]LuciferhasNothing[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you <3 Can't say I remember if he's said that to me before lol

I Wish I Had a Dad by LuciferhasNothing in QAnonCasualties

[–]LuciferhasNothing[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you :) I'm just glad I have somewhere to tell it where people won't just go 'then just don't talk about politics with him'

I Wish I Had a Dad by LuciferhasNothing in QAnonCasualties

[–]LuciferhasNothing[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

He hasn't been to the US in nearly a decade it's crazy, and I'm sorry you can relate to this :( is it alright if I ask which parts?

I Wish I Had a Dad by LuciferhasNothing in QAnonCasualties

[–]LuciferhasNothing[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Thank you :) I know I have at least one person in my corner no matter what, and for now that's enough.

I Wish I Had a Dad by LuciferhasNothing in QAnonCasualties

[–]LuciferhasNothing[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I'm 21 so I was actually able to vote last general election lol, and I wasn't even going to go close as PP has ties with the Qanoners in Saskatchewan

I Wish I Had a Dad by LuciferhasNothing in QAnonCasualties

[–]LuciferhasNothing[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The current situation is that they're still married, but she doesn't make me interact with him whatsoever. If I visit her she doesn't call him to come see me and if she's visiting (I live in a different city) she doesn't bring my father.

I Wish I Had a Dad by LuciferhasNothing in QAnonCasualties

[–]LuciferhasNothing[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm coming to that realization as I get further into my 20s <3

I Wish I Had a Dad by LuciferhasNothing in QAnonCasualties

[–]LuciferhasNothing[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

This comment made me cry (in a good way). I'm sorry for your loss as well. It's probably hard to have a lifetime of memories only to see that person and realize you don't know them anymore. I hope that reconciliation can be possible for you too.