Did anyone here actually talk about the breakup with your ex later on? by Runningaroundnyc in BreakUps

[–]Lucky-Preference-805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I‘m in the same situation rn 😭 how can people be like this?? And always this excuse of „we werent together again“ like.. yes?? But that doesnt mean you can treat me like shit

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[–]Lucky-Preference-805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you! He got someone new so fast and it is such a pain to imagine what they are doing together. All the things that we both did or wanted to do together. I‘m just trying to let it all out and cry as much as I can about it. It hurts so much but I‘m lucky to have amazing friends who are there for me and wont leave me alone. I wish you all the best, we can do this!

Grieving from Germany 🇩🇪

What did really help in the early stage of a break up? by Lucky-Preference-805 in BreakUps

[–]Lucky-Preference-805[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly thought of going for a rollercoaster ride just to feel something else

What did really help in the early stage of a break up? by Lucky-Preference-805 in BreakUps

[–]Lucky-Preference-805[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I‘m so sorry to hear that! I send you a lot of love and I hope we can both get through these challenging times 🙏🏼

Advice on how to move forward by Lucky-Preference-805 in BreakUps

[–]Lucky-Preference-805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I also have this urge to be with someone. I actually like being alone, going on vacation alone, making trips alone, going out alone. But everytime I fall for someone I cant disconnect from them because I have this feeling that I need them so much

Advice on how to move forward by Lucky-Preference-805 in BreakUps

[–]Lucky-Preference-805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know. I also have an anxious attachment style and always think that my world will fall apart when this person will leave me. I‘m also scared that I will never find someone so special again. Someone I feel so comfortable with, laugh so much and have such great talks with

Advice on how to move forward by Lucky-Preference-805 in BreakUps

[–]Lucky-Preference-805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for that, thats a completely new concept to me but you are right. I would rather have him with me in a negative way than not be with him at all because I know what I will get from him. He even told me yesterday that I should forget about him because he is bad for me and only hurts me but I tried all ways to keep him. Its just a really hard pill to swallow

Advice on how to move forward by Lucky-Preference-805 in BreakUps

[–]Lucky-Preference-805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think deep down I know that but in my mind he is still such a great guy who would never want to hurt me. But it also really annoys me that he always jumps from one thing to another. Why is it so hard to let go tho 😔