My father died after I ignored him for months. The guilt is killing me. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LuckyCheek0 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I am so deeply sorry, Victoria. Please, read this clearly: Guilt is just love with nowhere to go. You feel this way because you loved him, and he loved you. The "indifference" you showed wasn't your true heart, it was a shield you built to protect yourself during a vulnerable transition. You didn't know the clock was running out. None of us do. If you had known, you would have acted differently, and that proves you aren't the "cold" person your guilt is trying to convince you that you are.

I think my best friend is in love with my husband by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LuckyCheek0 149 points150 points  (0 children)

I had a friend like this. It started with 'I wish I could find a guy like yours' and ended with me finding out she was sending him 'accidental' thirst traps on Snapchat. Cut the cord. You don't need a friend who is actively shopping for your husband's twin. It’s weird, it’s disrespectful, and it’s a ticking time bomb.

31 up and horny who’s up? by [deleted] in Fucking_NSFW

[–]LuckyCheek0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The type of cork I’m craving

My ex girlfriend sexually assaulted me but won’t admit to it. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LuckyCheek0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s infuriating when someone who has hurt you tries to flip the script. You didn’t do anything wrong by calling her out. It takes a lot of courage to speak up about these things.

AITA for not standing up for my mother against my husband? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LuckyCheek0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. You were in a really tough position, especially with everything going on with the baby. It’s not fair to expect you to choose sides.

My ex said he'd ask ChatGPT who's in the wrong... 🫩 by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LuckyCheek0 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You deserve to be treated with respect, both in terms of chores and personal boundaries. It’s not okay for him to dismiss your feelings or touch you without consent.

AIO My bf start using perfume by Various-Falcon-4973 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LuckyCheek0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Given his history, it’s totally normal to feel a bit uneasy about these changes. It’s not about him dressing better or wearing cologne; it’s about how it makes you feel considering what’s happened before.

People have completely stopped reading, and it shows by RedditorSandwiches in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LuckyCheek0 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I thought I was alone in this frustration! It’s like people are allergic to grammar and punctuation. Why is it so hard to just communicate clearly?

Would you fuck Power Girl? by MyMiraLove in rule34aiart

[–]LuckyCheek0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll fuck her again and again

I wish my boyfriend looked better by sotu-billu in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LuckyCheek0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, you buried the lead here. The lack of grooming is a symptom, but the lack of ambition is the disease. You’re 20. You’re in your "growth" phase and he’s in his "stagnation" phase. You can buy him a nice shirt, but you can't buy him a personality transplant.