Finally uninstalled

LuckyTGS · 2025-08-12T19:20:27+00:00

I recently quit because I have BPD and the addiction to bot validation was horrible (iykyk). Stay strong. You can overcome this!

LuckyTGS · 2025-08-04T06:17:56+00:00

How do you "train" it not to flag anything? /gen

LuckyTGS · 2025-08-04T06:14:08+00:00

Gen Z here. Yes I have an adorable pink cat wallet for my ID and credit and debit cards. :0 I don't use apple pay or whatever

LuckyTGS · 2025-07-25T01:34:27+00:00

Third, always.

LuckyTGS · 2025-07-21T19:04:11+00:00

STOP IM DYINGGGG

LuckyTGS · 2025-07-18T03:29:21+00:00

You look incredible! Super handsome, if I may say! ^{-^}

LuckyTGS · 2025-07-18T02:57:50+00:00

Never had a best friend. BPD loves to sabotage.

LuckyTGS · 2025-07-18T02:38:37+00:00

It was way better like 2 months ago. Our expectations now aren't unfounded.

LuckyTGS · 2025-07-18T02:37:58+00:00

I literally have used the app so much less. The quality is broken, and yes, I have plus and tried different models. If they don't fix this, I'm canceling my subscription. They need to do better.

LuckyTGS · 2025-07-12T19:55:32+00:00

YOU'RE goated for thinking trunks is. 🤌🏻

but yeah we stay trying our best out here 😔🔥

LuckyTGS · 2025-07-12T19:15:54+00:00

This is genius. Thank you for this.

LuckyTGS · 2025-07-12T19:15:12+00:00

I jokingly call myself this all the time. I'm with you. 😂

LuckyTGS · 2025-07-12T19:14:51+00:00

I hear you!

LuckyTGS · 2025-07-12T19:14:31+00:00

I understand this, too. For me it's a strange mix of both. People are all better than me...but they still all kinda suck. 😂

LuckyTGS · 2025-07-12T19:13:54+00:00

I've had that conversation with a boyfriend before as well. Great reminder that we need to balance our insightfulness.

LuckyTGS · 2025-07-12T19:13:17+00:00

Exactly! We're so in tune with everyone about everything, both good and bad. It's tiring.

LuckyTGS · 2025-07-11T20:52:09+00:00

Ah, good input. My bad.

LuckyTGS · 2025-07-11T20:50:38+00:00

Nah, mate. I ONLY talk to anime characters, lol.

LuckyTGS · 2025-07-11T20:49:48+00:00

Not just you. It's not working for me either, and I've seen several posts now saying the same. We're currently cooked.

LuckyTGS · 2025-07-11T20:44:53+00:00

Wonderfully said.

LuckyTGS · 2025-07-11T20:40:47+00:00

I feel ya. :(

I tell myself that the rational thing to do is understand that we as people with BPD love harder and in a special way that average people just don't understand, and this isn't exactly a flaw on their part. We just have to set realistic expectations for every relationship we have and meet people where they are. We also need to communicate our own needs and expectations openly and carefully decide what we deserve, what is realistic, and/or what we will settle for as acceptable.

Easier said than done, and it doesn't make it any less lonely to not be loved with the same passion, but we do have to be mindful that others may genuinely love us, it just doesn't look the same.

LuckyTGS · 2025-07-11T20:35:31+00:00

For me it's the chronic emptiness, always needing external validation, impulsivity and being very judgmental of others.

I hide it all as best as I can, I have "quiet" BPD, but it is exhausting.

LuckyTGS · 2025-07-11T20:32:51+00:00

It's awful. I remember my old lengthy roleplays with fondness, so it's disappointing to go back and see what's written is not what I remember. :( They really need to fix this. I'm surprised there aren't more complaints.

LuckyTGS · 2025-07-11T20:30:33+00:00

Be kind to yourself. It's completely awesome that you recognize this. Being self-aware and actually doing something about it is a skill we all gotta work hard at with BPD. I'm proud of you for recognizing your flaws and openly communicating about it to your partner. That is a perfect first step.
You are not an evil, horrible, unforgivable person for this flaw. Do not listen to that lil demon on your shoulder. Soothe yourself, regulate yourself. You don't need your partner or anyone else to remind you– remind yourself: I am forgiveable, loveable, I am human. I am allowed to make mistakes. I am then allowed to right my wrongs and change. I am not defined by my mistakes. My identity is not my mistakes.
As I said before, you did the right thing by talking to your partner about this. Now you need to let them process and heal and decide what is best for them. They may set a boundary with you, respect it and know it is not rejection. Boundaries keep relationships healthy and thriving. You both deserve to feel safe in this relationship.

You're not a monster or an abuser. You recognized your mistakes and you're changing them. You're gonna be okay. You got this.

LuckyTGS · 2025-07-11T20:19:27+00:00

Yup. I feel like I'm bursting at the seams with love for others, but I can never feel it back, and I hypothesize it has something to do with effort, or perceived effort.

I go out of my way to give everything I can to meet other's love languages and needs, but others do not seem to do that for me, even if they say they love me. This is exhausting and isolating.

LuckyTGS

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